Bi_3 wrote:McParadigm wrote:Bi_3 wrote:McParadigm wrote:Bi_3 wrote:B wrote:Mike Ditka, "There has been no oppression in the last 100 years that I know of,” Ditka said. “Now maybe I’m not watching it as carefully as other people. I think the opportunity is there for everybody — race, religion, creed, color, nationality. If you want to work, if you want to try, if you want to put effort in, you can accomplish anything.”
Nothing bad has happened since 1917.
1917.
If more protests focused on Jim Crow, where there is indisputable evidence of of systemic and legally enforced racism against people who are walking on the streets today, IMO we would get a lot closer to a point where most people can empathize with the lasting effect of the history of black America.
This is the most depressing sentence I think I've ever read.
Sure, but do you agree or disagree?
I believe that the majority of white Americans who currently feel no or minimal empathy for people of any particular color are not now, or ever going to be, an argument, observation, or a strategy away from grasping at that basic human understanding.
I don't necessarily disagree with that, but I believe a lot of that is because there are easily used rationalizations that can be used to absolve oneself of having to think about it, stuff like "slavery was 150 years ago". You can't look a slave in the face. You can't look the child of a slave in the face. It's basically ancient history to modern minds. Jim Crow presents a different , more practical path to reach people because you can put those people on TV. You can show how those laws (for example shorting payments to black soldiers in 20th century wars) lead to outcomes in individuals that humans can relate to in today's society and opening that door to empathy via human connection is key. Don't try to solve it all at once. Don't blame. FFS sake don't break or burn anything. Just try to get people to understand that even though legal equality exists, it's not over for people you may see or talk to everyday.
Edit: Not telling activists how to act, just explaining an option for reaching people whose group I am member of.
The problem is that "you weren't a slave" is just one component of a series of simple, accepted dismissals that are not at heart about understanding or trying to, but are instead about preventing the other from having to hear. They are circular, endless waves of thoroughly uninterested hands in the air.
In South Dakota, it went like this:
Tribal peoples: (protest something)
White people: I get that they are unhappy, but I mean...you never hunted buffalo. You have air conditioning. Maybe if they weren't going on about events from their great grandfather's time...
Man from East River: When I was 8, white men in pickups came into town. They were drunk. They beat my father until he stopped moving. He died three days later. They tried to hurt my mother but she got away, so they cut my cheek here. They gave me this scar. The cops never even asked for a description.
White people: Gosh that's so sad. I can really sympathize...I mean, a child's pain and all. And those men should be in prison. But my dad worked himself to death on the farm, and died dirt poor. We all struggle. You can't let that define you.
Tribal peoples: This isnt just about those men. Or even just about those cops. It's about traumatic, institutionalize abuse. No one stands up to acknowledge it.
White people: Hey I'm right here with you. Gee it's like you don't appreciate my support. You know, being ungrateful hurts your cause...
Tribal peoples: We need real change, for our children's sake, not-
White people: You want change? Stop drinking. Get off the reservation. Get a better job and send the kids to college. Your circumstances are not my fault.
Tribal peoples: This is not about assigning blame. This is about understanding a suppression that lasted lifetimes. "Sending our kids off to" white people schools is still a painful memory-
White people: Oh lord. Maybe if they weren't going on about events from their great grandfather's time... (repeat forever)
It's just a strategy that allows you to dismiss other people's truths without ever having to feel bad about yourself because you are, in fact, brutally dismissive.
Edited a lot bc I wrote in a hurry on the bus