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nah you arent wrong, and i dont think Ello was trying to make you feel bad about it.
Sometimes we can forget that our experiences shape a lot of how we feel, and even a very light advice can feel personal to the other one.
Sometimes we can forget that our experiences shape a lot of how we feel, and even a very light advice can feel personal to the other one.
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Except for, you know, deleting Twitter. Wherever there is civilization, there will be hatred. Twitter is the worst of humanity, distilled. It's the playground of the miserable. Free yourself.Ms Harmless wrote:I do absolutely everything I can to curate my online experience to avoid as much hate as possible
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you're the best, epilogue, I'm just really having a bad time rn; thank you
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Ms Harmless wrote:you're the best, epilogue, I'm just really having a bad time rn; thank you
I'm always here if you need anything.
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I appreciate that but it doesn't matter what Ello was "trying" to do, he needs to learn that sometimes he just says dumb shit and when it's explained to him why it was dumb, he should sit down instead of continuing to mock the person he's already hurtVinylGuy wrote:nah you arent wrong, and i dont think Ello was trying to make you feel bad about it.
Sometimes we can forget that our experiences shape a lot of how we feel, and even a very light advice can feel personal to the other one.
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I know, I appreciate youepilogue wrote:Ms Harmless wrote:you're the best, epilogue, I'm just really having a bad time rn; thank you![]()
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Speaking from experience, this is a really important and valuable lesson for all of us.Ms Harmless wrote:I appreciate that but it doesn't matter what Ello was "trying" to do, he needs to learn that sometimes he just says dumb shit and when it's explained to him why it was dumb, he should sit down instead of continuing to mock the person he's already hurtVinylGuy wrote:nah you arent wrong, and i dont think Ello was trying to make you feel bad about it.
Sometimes we can forget that our experiences shape a lot of how we feel, and even a very light advice can feel personal to the other one.
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I don't need you explaining my experience of hatred to me OR its solutionEllo Sailor wrote:Except for, you know, deleting Twitter. Wherever there is civilization, there will be hatred. Twitter is the worst of humanity, distilled. It's the playground of the miserable. Free yourself.Ms Harmless wrote:I do absolutely everything I can to curate my online experience to avoid as much hate as possible
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Ello, I'm simply asking you to consider why "if you don't want to experience violence, simply don't do A, B, C, D... W, X, Y, Z! simple, works for me!" doesn't work for somebody who isn't a non-disabled cis het white man
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"Twitter is the worst of humanity, distilled"
and not just Twitter, when you are me
and not just Twitter, when you are me
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I go online to try to RELAX and WORK THROUGH the crap I have to experience on a daily basis OFFLINE, but there is truly no such thing as a safe space
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yeah i guess that applies to everyone, but there is a chance he wasnt trying to hurt you. I think it matters if he was trying or not, there is a difference. And also his suggestion was interesting.Ms Harmless wrote:I appreciate that but it doesn't matter what Ello was "trying" to do, he needs to learn that sometimes he just says dumb shit and when it's explained to him why it was dumb, he should sit down instead of continuing to mock the person he's already hurtVinylGuy wrote:nah you arent wrong, and i dont think Ello was trying to make you feel bad about it.
Sometimes we can forget that our experiences shape a lot of how we feel, and even a very light advice can feel personal to the other one.
Anyway, i hope you feel better.
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How have I hurt you? WtfMs Harmless wrote:I appreciate that but it doesn't matter what Ello was "trying" to do, he needs to learn that sometimes he just says dumb shit and when it's explained to him why it was dumb, he should sit down instead of continuing to mock the person he's already hurtVinylGuy wrote:nah you arent wrong, and i dont think Ello was trying to make you feel bad about it.
Sometimes we can forget that our experiences shape a lot of how we feel, and even a very light advice can feel personal to the other one.
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More like adventures in hugboxing.
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How many times does she have to explain it? Jesus.Ello Sailor wrote:How have I hurt you? WtfMs Harmless wrote:I appreciate that but it doesn't matter what Ello was "trying" to do, he needs to learn that sometimes he just says dumb shit and when it's explained to him why it was dumb, he should sit down instead of continuing to mock the person he's already hurtVinylGuy wrote:nah you arent wrong, and i dont think Ello was trying to make you feel bad about it.
Sometimes we can forget that our experiences shape a lot of how we feel, and even a very light advice can feel personal to the other one.
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Yikes. No logic allowed in the war room, I guess.
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I don't give a fuck that he wasn't TRYINGVinylGuy wrote:yeah i guess that applies to everyone, but there is a chance he wasnt trying to hurt you. I think it matters if he was trying or not, there is a difference. And also his suggestion was interesting.Ms Harmless wrote:I appreciate that but it doesn't matter what Ello was "trying" to do, he needs to learn that sometimes he just says dumb shit and when it's explained to him why it was dumb, he should sit down instead of continuing to mock the person he's already hurtVinylGuy wrote:nah you arent wrong, and i dont think Ello was trying to make you feel bad about it.
Sometimes we can forget that our experiences shape a lot of how we feel, and even a very light advice can feel personal to the other one.
Anyway, i hope you feel better.
he DID
and when he grows the fuck up, maybe he'll learn he has the capacity to unintentionally harm
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if all you've got is Devil's Advocacy, vinyl guy, please mind your own business; we are both adults and we don't need you to unpack the situation
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Weird energy report, here we come.
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