Do you have a good relationship with yourself?

tree_ · Post by **tree_** » Mon November 13, 2023 3:54 pm

What is your self-talk like, for those of you who are not NPCs?

spike · Post by **spike** » Mon November 13, 2023 4:05 pm

i'm learning to not be so hard on myself

lennytheweedwhacker · Mon November 13, 2023 4:07 pm

spike wrote:i'm learning to not be so hard on myself

Teach me

tree_ · Post by **tree_** » Mon November 13, 2023 4:07 pm

yes, it helps to view yourself as someone you care for, like a child or spouse.. would you talk to your spouse that way? would you let your child eat that?

spike · Post by **spike** » Mon November 13, 2023 4:16 pm

lennytheweedwhacker wrote:
spike wrote:i'm learning to not be so hard on myself
Teach me

I am lost I'm no guide but I'm by your side

Post by **The Argonaut** » Mon November 13, 2023 4:19 pm

I've always struggled with low self-esteem, which can sometimes break down into self-loathing. It may be too much to ask to transform this into confidence and self-love, so recently I've begun to try to transform my low self-opinion into humility. It's going ok!

tree_ · Post by **tree_** » Mon November 13, 2023 4:25 pm

The Argonaut wrote:I've always struggled with low self-esteem, which can sometimes break down into self-loathing. It may be too much to ask to transform this into confidence and self-love, so recently I've begun to try to transform my low self-opinion into humility. It's going ok!

I get that, and I relate. I've just grown to accept myself for who I really am. I don't need to be some great person. Decent is enough.

spike · Post by **spike** » Mon November 13, 2023 4:33 pm

tree_ wrote:
The Argonaut wrote:I've always struggled with low self-esteem, which can sometimes break down into self-loathing. It may be too much to ask to transform this into confidence and self-love, so recently I've begun to try to transform my low self-opinion into humility. It's going ok!
I get that, and I relate. I've just grown to accept myself for who I really am. I don't need to be some great person. Decent is enough.

That’s super healthy stuff, both of you.

BurtReynolds · Post by **BurtReynolds** » Mon November 13, 2023 4:33 pm

As an egoist, I love myself!

tree_ · Post by **tree_** » Mon November 13, 2023 4:39 pm

BurtReynolds wrote:As an egoist, I love myself!

so what is your self-talk like?

"my hair is so fucking rad today, and every day"

"that hot chick over there is super into my sexy strut right now"

"if i could impregnate every chick on earth the world would be a better place"

???

tommy · Post by **tommy** » Mon November 13, 2023 4:43 pm

No and I'm not really working on it

tree_ · Post by **tree_** » Mon November 13, 2023 4:44 pm

tommy wrote:No and I'm not really working on it

what are some things you tell yourself? Maybe if you talk about them you will see how foolish and inaccurate they are

spike · Post by **spike** » Mon November 13, 2023 4:46 pm

tommy wrote:No and I'm not really working on it

you stopped slowly killing yourself with darts, right?

tommy · Post by **tommy** » Mon November 13, 2023 4:48 pm

spike wrote:
tommy wrote:No and I'm not really working on it
you stopped slowly killing yourself with darts, right?

What's this?

spike · Post by **spike** » Mon November 13, 2023 4:48 pm

tommy wrote:
spike wrote:
tommy wrote:No and I'm not really working on it
you stopped slowly killing yourself with darts, right?
What's this?

coffin nails

tommy · Post by **tommy** » Mon November 13, 2023 4:54 pm

spike wrote:
tommy wrote:
spike wrote:
tommy wrote:No and I'm not really working on it
you stopped slowly killing yourself with darts, right?
What's this?
coffin nails

Oh yeah. I miss them dearly.

Ms Harmless · Post by **Ms Harmless** » Mon November 13, 2023 4:55 pm

I'm beginning to

tommy · Post by **tommy** » Mon November 13, 2023 4:55 pm

tree_ wrote:
tommy wrote:No and I'm not really working on it
what are some things you tell yourself? Maybe if you talk about them you will see how foolish and inaccurate they are

Mostly it's stuff about how I'm never going to win a world cup.

spike · Post by **spike** » Mon November 13, 2023 4:55 pm

tommy wrote:
spike wrote:
tommy wrote:
spike wrote:
tommy wrote:No and I'm not really working on it
you stopped slowly killing yourself with darts, right?
What's this?
coffin nails
Oh yeah. I miss them dearly.

that's a big one though! build on it.

tree_ · Post by **tree_** » Mon November 13, 2023 4:56 pm

tommy wrote:
tree_ wrote:
tommy wrote:No and I'm not really working on it
what are some things you tell yourself? Maybe if you talk about them you will see how foolish and inaccurate they are
Mostly it's stuff about how I'm never going to win a world cup.

do you even play soccer ever?

Red Mosquito

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