RM Court - AITA

[spike]

Smule

[spike]

Even Plow

[doug rr]

burroceans

[spike]

take the kong way

[oasisfan35]

A lot of public wifi setups are not secure. Never use them if you value your data

correct answer, why would you ever

Because it's FREE!

[E.H. Ruddock]

Sometimes the first pun is the best, guys, and none need to follow

[spike]

really thought ruddo might’ve grown out of his cranky pants

[Bammer]

Spike your game is washed man. Sad to see.

[spike]

That’s okay, I continue to have a rent free place to reside.

[Bammer]

I call ‘em like I see ‘em

[Sgt. Crackpot]

Sometimes the first pun is the best, guys, and none need to follow

Pundone

[Ello Sailor]

That's true. But your last few web searches were quite intriguing

I got hacked, bro. I've seen Jakey G topless countless times why would I even search that? Can't prove anything.

[Sgt. Crackpot]

[Bammer]

Sometimes the first pun is the best, guys, and none need to follow

Pundone

Very, very good

[E.H. Ruddock]

really thought ruddo might’ve grown out of his cranky pants

I’m still mad we aren’t watching Packers at Bucs this Sunday

[Chris_H_2]

really thought ruddo might’ve grown out of his cranky pants

I’m still mad we aren’t watching Packers at Bucs this Sunday

[spike]

really thought ruddo might’ve grown out of his cranky pants

I’m still mad we aren’t watching Packers at Bucs this Sunday

Battle of the Bays

[Bammer]

really thought ruddo might’ve grown out of his cranky pants

I’m still mad we aren’t watching Packers at Bucs this Sunday

Wait they’re not doing the Gay Bowl again this year?

[Peeps]

given to pry

[tree_]

Some of you might feel weird about reading this, or the act of me sharing it at all. I feel it's OK because of the anonymity of those involved. If you are uncomfortable, just stop reading! I think it might make me feel a little better to share it; I have struggled immensely with my entire family, particularly my mother and sister my entire life and I no longer have patience for their bullshit, but I don't know how else to approach these situations without completely blowing up on them. I no longer talk to my dad, but my mother and I have found a peaceful relationship the past year or so. I feel my judgment may be clouded, and could use your objective perspective. It's a text exchange between me and my sister. AITA, do you think?


Her: I did not have any bad intentions the day i asked if anyone seen u nor do I ever have bad intentions...there have been times where people just randomly ask if u r at work even if they don't need anything, it happens..I'm sorry u felt that way, guess since I was guilty of it once that's why ud think that (but u had said it did help things with u and mom)...anyway me and --(16 year old child, we'll call him "E")-- E would just like a relationship with u someday, but we can wait until your ready..love you and always will

Me: No ill will from me. I don't want drama. I live a full life with an hour drive to and from work 5 days a week, a relationship with and responsibilities to my wife and two young children. I do value my quiet time at work. If you need or want something from me, just ask and we can discuss it.

Her: Hey I've been talking to E about his bday and he just layed it all out, being real honest...this is not for DRAMA, it's just so u know what's going on, if u happen to care, are if u we're gonna come for his bday...this is E texting now - Ain't been in any of are life really or done anything(since you've been with Shear Bear) and since you've been with her you've been a whole another person, that I don't want anything to do with. The only person you really have anything to do with is mama (grandma) since she's raising your kids pretty much for you(I think it would be hard to deal with your wife and raise kids to so kinda understand that). If I think of anything else I'll let you know. My opinion and just being honest with you.

Me: You're right that I've been a different person. That's what happens when you fall in love and start a family. I will not take these insults. Grandma does not raise our kids for us. That is ridiculous. My wife read this message last night and it upset her quit a bit, not because it's true, but because you find a way to attack us time and time again when we are doing nothing wrong, and bring this ridiculous drama to our lives. It is best to keep this toxicity out of our lives as much as possible. You owe us an apology if you want any relationship at all with my family. I will be asking Mom to no longer take the boys to your house.

Her: None of that was from me it was from E. I wanted to let u know how he felt

Me: Well you should talk to him and correct him if you disagree with him. Not text it to me. He's a kid. I'm sorry I'm not in his life more but I have reached out several times in the past and he didn't reply, among other things, like drama and tension between you and me. Don't pretend this is all on me. This is a vicious cycle of tension and drama with you. I refuse to allow it in my life.

Her: Well E wanted to let you know how he felt since I brought up you coming for his bday...I didn't want him to send it like that but he pushed the button...it isn't like this is going to change anything u have had nothing to do with us anyway...u treated me like shit when I came to your office when all I had was good intentions

Me: S, just leave me alone. You are wildly confused and inappropriate.

Her: So you can text E about this,like I said I didn't want him to send it like that...I'm not confused at all lol..I'll b happy to leave u alone it's not like we have anything with u anyway

Me: I'm not texting him. If you keep texting me this drama I will block your number. He's your kid. You and his dad messed him up and confused him with all your drama and nonsense, not me. You need to take accountability and stop blaming others for your problems.

Her: (Laughing emoji)
Who am I blaming for my problems? U don't make any sense. I don't even have any problems

I proceed to block her number



Obviously there is a lot of history here left unexplained. Feel free to ask questions and I will do my best to answer objectively.