I didn't say that. You have every right to feel hurt. And as I said before, I think the right thing to do is listen to someone when they say they feel negatively effected by one's actions, and one in good faith should attempt to correct course, even if the intention was already pure.Ms Harmless wrote:*sigh* you're right, hurt is all about someone's intention and the fault is all mine for being upsettree_ wrote:So you can admit that he may not be intending to hurt you, but because of your personality, you tend to interpret it this wayMs Harmless wrote:can you tell me when being "overly sensitive" became a moral failing? all of my friends respect my sensitivity; I say I'm not good with the ribbing and the roasting, they respect that and don't do itEllo Sailor wrote:Trag is a monstrous dickhead and Harmless is overly sensitive.
Both can be true. Hope this helps.
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This made me LOLStrat wrote:Shut the fuck uptree_ wrote:It's a misunderstanding and clash of personalities. You've admitted to enjoying a good ribbing, in which you participate as a sign of love and friendship. Ms. Harmless has admitted many times to being very sensitive to bullying behaviour in part to her personal struggle with real life bullies. I think it's the right thing to do to at least make an effort to be kinder to people when they ask you to.tragabigzanda wrote:Yeah it's not like everyone is just applauding my posts all the time. I've been fighting an uphill battle since the first single came out and have taken a lot of flack for it. I mostly perceive it as good natured fun.Strat wrote:Also we've already called trag a monster! His lunacy is right out there for all of us!
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Add some lasers and a few handclaps and we ourselves a hit!McParadigm wrote:Monstrous dickhead, truth be toldMonkey_Driven wrote:Monstrous Dickhead, now that's a song title.
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so why bother asking me if I think I'm being a tad too sensitive "because of my personality"? are we really making this about my innate character vs. (some of) Trag's actions?tree_ wrote:I didn't say that. You have every right to feel hurt. And as I said before, I think the right thing to do is listen to someone when they say they feel negatively effected by one's actions, and attempt to correct course, even if the intention was pure.Ms Harmless wrote:*sigh* you're right, hurt is all about someone's intention and the fault is all mine for being upsettree_ wrote:So you can admit that he may not be intending to hurt you, but because of your personality, you tend to interpret it this wayMs Harmless wrote:can you tell me when being "overly sensitive" became a moral failing? all of my friends respect my sensitivity; I say I'm not good with the ribbing and the roasting, they respect that and don't do itEllo Sailor wrote:Trag is a monstrous dickhead and Harmless is overly sensitive.
Both can be true. Hope this helps.
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If you take a step back, you might be able to see that you interpret trag's behaviour differently from others (maybe most others), because of your unique personality. and that might help to give him a little more benefit of the doubtMs Harmless wrote:so why bother asking me if I think I'm being a tad too sensitive "because of my personality"? are we really making this about my innate character vs. (some of) Trag's actions?tree_ wrote:I didn't say that. You have every right to feel hurt. And as I said before, I think the right thing to do is listen to someone when they say they feel negatively effected by one's actions, and attempt to correct course, even if the intention was pure.Ms Harmless wrote:*sigh* you're right, hurt is all about someone's intention and the fault is all mine for being upsettree_ wrote:So you can admit that he may not be intending to hurt you, but because of your personality, you tend to interpret it this wayMs Harmless wrote:can you tell me when being "overly sensitive" became a moral failing? all of my friends respect my sensitivity; I say I'm not good with the ribbing and the roasting, they respect that and don't do itEllo Sailor wrote:Trag is a monstrous dickhead and Harmless is overly sensitive.
Both can be true. Hope this helps.
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Official lyric video? I like the lyrics, love the phrasing, but holy shit no way he ever nails this live.
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hahatree_ wrote:If you take a step back, you might be able to see that you interpret trag's behaviour differently from others (maybe most others), because of your unique personality. and that might help to give him a little more benefit of the doubtMs Harmless wrote:so why bother asking me if I think I'm being a tad too sensitive "because of my personality"? are we really making this about my innate character vs. (some of) Trag's actions?tree_ wrote:I didn't say that. You have every right to feel hurt. And as I said before, I think the right thing to do is listen to someone when they say they feel negatively effected by one's actions, and attempt to correct course, even if the intention was pure.Ms Harmless wrote:*sigh* you're right, hurt is all about someone's intention and the fault is all mine for being upsettree_ wrote:So you can admit that he may not be intending to hurt you, but because of your personality, you tend to interpret it this wayMs Harmless wrote:can you tell me when being "overly sensitive" became a moral failing? all of my friends respect my sensitivity; I say I'm not good with the ribbing and the roasting, they respect that and don't do itEllo Sailor wrote:Trag is a monstrous dickhead and Harmless is overly sensitive.
Both can be true. Hope this helps.
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"most others" aren't bullies, Trag is
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it's kind of amazing that you'd paint my evaluation of that as "my unique personality"
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100%Kevin Davis wrote:It is possible that I have missed some things; a lot of these threads have moved quickly through a lot of pages. And if I have mischaracterized anyone, I apologize. But, from my limited viewpoint, what I am seeing is a catch-all attempt to lump all of MH’s sensitivity into a blanket inability to handle simple disagreement, and that feels like gaslighting to meStrat wrote:Harmless is guilty of all of these things. She's It as direct with her choice of words but make no mistake she is just as eager to act out similar behavior. It's just more passive. And gaslighting
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most other people, at least here, take trag's behaviour as fun ribbing and you don't, and you already admit to having to explain to your friends you are sensitive to it. There's nothing wrong with being unique and friends should respect friends' special needs and boundaries.Ms Harmless wrote:it's kind of amazing that you'd paint my evaluation of that as "my unique personality"
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Dudes, the bridge and the last 30 seconds of the song are intense as fuckkkk, im loving it
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its a 3 star song to me, very minor one in the context of PJ career. It might be a very fun listen in the context of the album, well see.
its a 3 star song to me, very minor one in the context of PJ career. It might be a very fun listen in the context of the album, well see.
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its a 3 star song to me, very minor one in the context of PJ career. It might be a very fun listen in the context of the album, well see.
its a 3 star song to me, very minor one in the context of PJ career. It might be a very fun listen in the context of the album, well see.
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its a 3 star song to me, very minor one in the context of PJ career. It might be a very fun listen in the context of the album, well see.
its a 3 star song to me, very minor one in the context of PJ career. It might be a very fun listen in the context of the album, well see.
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This song is not better than Take the Long Way (the second best song on Gigaton)
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