The Dating Thread

[The Argonaut]

I hope she just wants to be friends

[doug rr]

describe her to us

[lennytheweedwhacker]

Is she funny?

[BurtReynolds]

Hope she sticks around when the plant shuts down and the town falls on hard times.

[doug rr]

is she from the rust belt?

[lennytheweedwhacker]

I bet she likes Friends

[doug rr]

bet she has an extensive Judy Blume collection

[The Argonaut]

describe her to us

She's almost the same height as me and she has tattoos

[BurtReynolds]

sounds like trouble.

[doug rr]

describe her to us

She's almost the same height as me and she has tattoos

corvette tattoos?

[The Argonaut]

describe her to us

She's almost the same height as me and she has tattoos

corvette tattoos?

I think just mostly cultural appropriation tattoos, probably

[Jorge]

I've been hanging out with someone lately but I'm not sure what her intentions are

What does this mean exactly? Are you hooking up but you're not sure if she's looking for something serious? Or have you been "hanging out" as in spending time together but you haven't hooked up and you don't know if she wants to?

[lennytheweedwhacker]

describe her to us

She's almost the same height as me and she has tattoos

OUT

[lennytheweedwhacker]

describe her to us

She's almost the same height as me and she has tattoos

corvette tattoos?

I think just mostly cultural appropriation tattoos, probably

Is she the factory janitor?

[The Argonaut]

I've been hanging out with someone lately but I'm not sure what her intentions are

What does this mean exactly? Are you hooking up but you're not sure if she's looking for something serious? Or have you been "hanging out" as in spending time together but you haven't hooked up and you don't know if she wants to?

The latter. No one is hooking up. It is unknown if anyone wants to, including even if I would want to. I mean, base, foolish, id argo likes the idea. But regular argo knows better.

There have just been a couple little things said or done that were in actuality probably just random or innocent but because I have this tiny baby crush I've attached meaning to. I'd really be quite happy if we became friends

[lennytheweedwhacker]

Are you still in Albany

What have you guys done when you hung out

Good luck

[Jorge]

I've been hanging out with someone lately but I'm not sure what her intentions are

What does this mean exactly? Are you hooking up but you're not sure if she's looking for something serious? Or have you been "hanging out" as in spending time together but you haven't hooked up and you don't know if she wants to?

The latter. No one is hooking up. It is unknown if anyone wants to, including even if I would want to. I mean, base, foolish, id argo likes the idea. But regular argo knows better.

Can you expand on that? Why do you "know better"? Is it because you're coworkers?

[The Argonaut]

I've been hanging out with someone lately but I'm not sure what her intentions are

What does this mean exactly? Are you hooking up but you're not sure if she's looking for something serious? Or have you been "hanging out" as in spending time together but you haven't hooked up and you don't know if she wants to?

The latter. No one is hooking up. It is unknown if anyone wants to, including even if I would want to. I mean, base, foolish, id argo likes the idea. But regular argo knows better.

Can you expand on that? Why do you "know better"? Is it because you're coworkers?

No. We met there but we don't work together anymore and I am leaving the factory within a month. Maybe I don't have a good reason why I know better? I don't know if dating is something I want to do anymore, or maybe just something I don't want to do right now? Also, just in this specific situation, I don't want to make a move and have her think that was all I cared about and she needs to either go along with it or we won't hang out anymore.

What have we done, Lenny? We went to brunch with a friend of mine, we went to lunch once, we went to a farmers market/street food festival kind of thing. We were together for six hours last Sunday, and she kind of like told me about a lot of intense stuff. But, yeah. I don't know, I think maybe I'll ask the mods to move this from the dating thread to the friendship thread. Thanks, mods

[Jorge]

Sounds like you don't actually like her that way

[The Argonaut]

The problem is I think I do. I am weak