Mine wrote:"If I can just see it through his viewpoint, then he won't be bitching about how miserable i made it for him"
I think you should appreciated how much better the communication is in the band though.
You know, for a few years following the near-implosion, I can totally respect that need. They had reached a Beatlesque breaking point, and I can appreciate that Yield was a full band determination to be more "with" each other. I can even understand Binaural's abandoned results coming from the fact that they weren't prepared to face that kind of adversity in the studio, just yet.
But if you're doing that shit right, you shouldn't still have to tiptoe around your attempts to express your creative intentions
fifteen years later. If they are still in a place where they can't occasionally say "Listen, this is what the fucking song is supposed to be, and your work is just not getting it there," or even "I think that one is garbage," then they're like a married couple that stayed together for the kids but had no plan. And everybody's experiencing just a dull, slow death of hope, because the only way the two stubborn idiots can stand each other is to avoid any confrontation and sneak out to have their various affairs in-between family outings, but boy aren't we doing the kids a solid I'm sure they don't even notice that anything's wrong.