I think 90% of the issue here is less to do with the ideas you want to talk about, harm, and more to do with the heatedly manic way you try to defend them.
I personally, have a hard time understanding how it makes sense to you to lash out at another person's dismissiveness...
you have no fucking right to belittle my (or his, or anyone's) opinions.
...and then turn around and be exactly that dismissive of someone else's opinions.
Fuck you, and you know what, fuck anyone who agrees with you.
Because that reads, to me, like you're invoking a privilege...implicitly behaving as though you have every right to tell them to fuck off, while they should maintain an air of respect and reflectiveness in response to your posts.
Likewise, it makes no sense to me to express frustration about having your words dismissed out of hand...
I was told that my entire system and basis for defending the cause...was 'a bunch of bullshit'.
...and then wonder why it's even worth talking to someone who doesn't already agree with you.
If you can't acknowledge you have systemic advantages over Asian people on one level and Native Americans on another, why are we even discussing this?
I can't figure how you think it's going to encourage people to consider your side of things, when you mock what you
assume they are thinking on one hand...
OMG the harmless account is so misguided and wrong about everything, in spite of his best efforts. Bless him, he'll never quite 'get it'.
...and then imply to someone else that they are "misguided and wrong," and "don't quite 'get it'."
Your privilege is showing when you laugh my perspective off
You see, none of this has to do with your IDEAS or ARGUMENTS. Heck, with a little less heated and angsty discussion, we might even get to where we could discuss them.