Peeps wrote:is there anyone one formula to make a desirable woman?
i don't know. i felt on a board filled with men, of some various ages at that, although more younger than older, it would be good to find out some of the more common traits guys look for in women that are generally agreed upon as being worthwhile of interest other than just great tits etc.
i think i'm also looking to get some insight into some of the double edged swords of worthiness as well: an exaggerated example, but lots of guys (maybe most guys?), want women who are sexually interesting and interested in lots of sexual activity, which is fine - everyone likes sex. but there's the concurrent idea that women who openly like as much sexual activity as men are whores and sluts and ok to be used for fucking and dumped on shortly there after having sex.
it's always been a bit of a puzzle, hasn't it? at least to me... how does a woman both enjoy an active and rigorous(?) sex life and still maintain an aura of respect and 'not a whore'-ness?
there's other examples, of course, but that one's pretty obvious.
how do women be strong independent thinking humans who are forthright in opinions and actions without risking labels of bitch or ball buster or I don't know what terms are used (although I'm sure many have been used towards me). and labels are damaging, make no mistake about it.
men who are aggressive in business are rewarded... women? not so much. there's a standard of behavior women are expected to uphold in a business environment that seems like a good deal of contradictory actions.
