Question for those born post 1990

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cutuphalfdead wrote:
theplatypus wrote:
durdencommatyler wrote:I work with a girl who is 24 and thinks she's absurd that I listen to Pearl Jam. Thing is, we have really similar tastes in music beyond that. She loves Tom Waits, The Mynabirds, Dylan, The Beatles, The Frames, Fiona Apple, etc. But she laughs me out of the room when I talk about Pearl Jam.
I know a lot of people like this. I get the feeling PJ aren't too well-respect among "music-savvy" 20-somethings (ie hipsters).
I was talking to one of the girl's who makes my coffee a few weeks ago, she's 21. She mentioned how she was listening to Coldplay for "the first time in forever" and how she forgot how great they were. I laughed and said I hated Coldplay. Her reply was "whatever, you probably listen to Pearl Jam".
What was your response?
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Birds in Hell wrote:
durdencommatyler wrote:
Birds in Hell wrote:
theplatypus wrote:
durdencommatyler wrote:I work with a girl who is 24 and thinks she's absurd that I listen to Pearl Jam. Thing is, we have really similar tastes in music beyond that. She loves Tom Waits, The Mynabirds, Dylan, The Beatles, The Frames, Fiona Apple, etc. But she laughs me out of the room when I talk about Pearl Jam.
I know a lot of people like this. I get the feeling PJ aren't too well-respect among "music-savvy" 20-somethings (ie hipsters).
I very much get the same impression, which is probably why it would normally take considerable effort to pry the fact that I like Pearl Jam out of me. It's just kind of embarrassing.

I think they tend to be regarded as the quintessential 'boring dork who hasn't bought an album in 20 years' band. I can't even think of any other band to which that stigma applies, Pearl Jam really are in a cringe-worthy class of their own among music fans.
You could be right.

But I wear that shit like a badge of honor. Pearl Jam have meant the world to me. They are a part of my growing up, of being who I am. And I really don't give a shit who knows it.
I've found there's invariably a whole host of unwelcome associations that become attached to you as a result of admitting a fondness for Pearl Jam. It's easier to just avoid the subject.
i tried for awhile, and believe I was making headway, but in the end its not worth the effort. Plus, cheerleading for a band I dont think has made a great album this millennium does kind of reek of being the 'boring dork who hasn't bought an album in 20 years'.
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durdencommatyler wrote:
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cutuphalfdead wrote: I bet Pearl Jam fans have a lot to do with this. They're the worst.
I sent Chud a picture of pear jam once. Straight from my fridge.
I dare you to watch that video all the way through, with the sound on.
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theplatypus wrote:
durdencommatyler wrote:
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cutuphalfdead wrote: I bet Pearl Jam fans have a lot to do with this. They're the worst.
I sent Chud a picture of pear jam once. Straight from my fridge.
I dare you to watch that video all the way through, with the sound on.
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Well that isn't even Oceans. :?
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It's just funny and awkward for the first 2 minutes or so. Then... it gets... burp and fart noise. Hey, who do we think enters the room at the very end there?
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BurtReynolds wrote:
Birds in Hell wrote:
durdencommatyler wrote:
Birds in Hell wrote:
theplatypus wrote:
durdencommatyler wrote:I work with a girl who is 24 and thinks she's absurd that I listen to Pearl Jam. Thing is, we have really similar tastes in music beyond that. She loves Tom Waits, The Mynabirds, Dylan, The Beatles, The Frames, Fiona Apple, etc. But she laughs me out of the room when I talk about Pearl Jam.
I know a lot of people like this. I get the feeling PJ aren't too well-respect among "music-savvy" 20-somethings (ie hipsters).
I very much get the same impression, which is probably why it would normally take considerable effort to pry the fact that I like Pearl Jam out of me. It's just kind of embarrassing.

I think they tend to be regarded as the quintessential 'boring dork who hasn't bought an album in 20 years' band. I can't even think of any other band to which that stigma applies, Pearl Jam really are in a cringe-worthy class of their own among music fans.
You could be right.

But I wear that shit like a badge of honor. Pearl Jam have meant the world to me. They are a part of my growing up, of being who I am. And I really don't give a shit who knows it.
I've found there's invariably a whole host of unwelcome associations that become attached to you as a result of admitting a fondness for Pearl Jam. It's easier to just avoid the subject.
i tried for awhile, and believe I was making headway, but in the end its not worth the effort. Plus, cheerleading for a band I dont think has made a great album this millennium does kind of reek of being the 'boring dork who hasn't bought an album in 20 years'.
Thing is, almost all Pearl Jam fans I've met outside of the board have fit this stereotype exactly.
durdencommatyler wrote:My last post was a total joke. But it got me thinking. It's probably stuff like "jamily" that makes non-fans hate Pearl Jam so much.
I don't know if "Jamily" and the 10C are even on the radar of people who don't like the band. It's much more common to encounter surprise that the band are still around.
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gpn2296 wrote:
cutuphalfdead wrote:
theplatypus wrote:
durdencommatyler wrote:I work with a girl who is 24 and thinks she's absurd that I listen to Pearl Jam. Thing is, we have really similar tastes in music beyond that. She loves Tom Waits, The Mynabirds, Dylan, The Beatles, The Frames, Fiona Apple, etc. But she laughs me out of the room when I talk about Pearl Jam.
I know a lot of people like this. I get the feeling PJ aren't too well-respect among "music-savvy" 20-somethings (ie hipsters).
I was talking to one of the girl's who makes my coffee a few weeks ago, she's 21. She mentioned how she was listening to Coldplay for "the first time in forever" and how she forgot how great they were. I laughed and said I hated Coldplay. Her reply was "whatever, you probably listen to Pearl Jam".
What was your response?
A look of defeat.
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Birds in Hell wrote:
durdencommatyler wrote:My last post was a total joke. But it got me thinking. It's probably stuff like "jamily" that makes non-fans hate Pearl Jam so much.
I don't know if "Jamily" and the 10C are even on the radar of people who don't like the band. It's much more common to encounter surprise that the band are still around.
No, I know. It was... never mind. PEARL JAM REWLS :bammer:
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cutuphalfdead wrote:
gpn2296 wrote:
cutuphalfdead wrote:
theplatypus wrote:
durdencommatyler wrote:I work with a girl who is 24 and thinks she's absurd that I listen to Pearl Jam. Thing is, we have really similar tastes in music beyond that. She loves Tom Waits, The Mynabirds, Dylan, The Beatles, The Frames, Fiona Apple, etc. But she laughs me out of the room when I talk about Pearl Jam.
I know a lot of people like this. I get the feeling PJ aren't too well-respect among "music-savvy" 20-somethings (ie hipsters).
I was talking to one of the girl's who makes my coffee a few weeks ago, she's 21. She mentioned how she was listening to Coldplay for "the first time in forever" and how she forgot how great they were. I laughed and said I hated Coldplay. Her reply was "whatever, you probably listen to Pearl Jam".
What was your response?
A look of defeat.
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durdencommatyler wrote:
cutuphalfdead wrote:
gpn2296 wrote:
cutuphalfdead wrote:
theplatypus wrote:
durdencommatyler wrote:I work with a girl who is 24 and thinks she's absurd that I listen to Pearl Jam. Thing is, we have really similar tastes in music beyond that. She loves Tom Waits, The Mynabirds, Dylan, The Beatles, The Frames, Fiona Apple, etc. But she laughs me out of the room when I talk about Pearl Jam.
I know a lot of people like this. I get the feeling PJ aren't too well-respect among "music-savvy" 20-somethings (ie hipsters).
I was talking to one of the girl's who makes my coffee a few weeks ago, she's 21. She mentioned how she was listening to Coldplay for "the first time in forever" and how she forgot how great they were. I laughed and said I hated Coldplay. Her reply was "whatever, you probably listen to Pearl Jam".
What was your response?
A look of defeat.
The young, they can lose hope because they can't see beyond today.
And she was all yellow.
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cutuphalfdead wrote:
durdencommatyler wrote:
cutuphalfdead wrote:
gpn2296 wrote:
cutuphalfdead wrote:
theplatypus wrote:
durdencommatyler wrote:I work with a girl who is 24 and thinks she's absurd that I listen to Pearl Jam. Thing is, we have really similar tastes in music beyond that. She loves Tom Waits, The Mynabirds, Dylan, The Beatles, The Frames, Fiona Apple, etc. But she laughs me out of the room when I talk about Pearl Jam.
I know a lot of people like this. I get the feeling PJ aren't too well-respect among "music-savvy" 20-somethings (ie hipsters).
I was talking to one of the girl's who makes my coffee a few weeks ago, she's 21. She mentioned how she was listening to Coldplay for "the first time in forever" and how she forgot how great they were. I laughed and said I hated Coldplay. Her reply was "whatever, you probably listen to Pearl Jam".
What was your response?
A look of defeat.
The young, they can lose hope because they can't see beyond today.
And she was all yellow.
Vomit and fart noise.
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Birds in Hell wrote:
theplatypus wrote:
durdencommatyler wrote:I work with a girl who is 24 and thinks she's absurd that I listen to Pearl Jam. Thing is, we have really similar tastes in music beyond that. She loves Tom Waits, The Mynabirds, Dylan, The Beatles, The Frames, Fiona Apple, etc. But she laughs me out of the room when I talk about Pearl Jam.
I know a lot of people like this. I get the feeling PJ aren't too well-respect among "music-savvy" 20-somethings (ie hipsters).
I very much get the same impression, which is probably why it would normally take considerable effort to pry the fact that I like Pearl Jam out of me. It's just kind of embarrassing.

I think they tend to be regarded as the quintessential 'boring dork who hasn't bought an album in 20 years' band. I can't even think of any other band to which that stigma applies, Pearl Jam really are in a cringe-worthy class of their own among music fans.
or amongst 20 something music savy hipsters. I wouldn't let that demographic embarrass you.
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stip wrote:
Birds in Hell wrote:
theplatypus wrote:
durdencommatyler wrote:I work with a girl who is 24 and thinks she's absurd that I listen to Pearl Jam. Thing is, we have really similar tastes in music beyond that. She loves Tom Waits, The Mynabirds, Dylan, The Beatles, The Frames, Fiona Apple, etc. But she laughs me out of the room when I talk about Pearl Jam.
I know a lot of people like this. I get the feeling PJ aren't too well-respect among "music-savvy" 20-somethings (ie hipsters).
I very much get the same impression, which is probably why it would normally take considerable effort to pry the fact that I like Pearl Jam out of me. It's just kind of embarrassing.

I think they tend to be regarded as the quintessential 'boring dork who hasn't bought an album in 20 years' band. I can't even think of any other band to which that stigma applies, Pearl Jam really are in a cringe-worthy class of their own among music fans.
or amongst 20 something music savy hipsters. I wouldn't let that demographic embarrass you.
I don't think it's that limited, I've seen plenty of people who are of the generation slightly older than most Pearl Jam fans horrified by them too (those people who were heavily into the 80s alternative scene, etc.)

I wouldn't so quickly write-off those hipsters. They're the serious music fans, the ones who are out there listening to new records, going to shows; they're the ones who'll ultimately shape the way this period is understood.

In any case, they're probably right.
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Birds in Hell wrote:I wouldn't so quickly write-off those hipsters. They're the serious music fans, the ones who are out there listening to new records, going to shows; they're the ones who'll ultimately shape the way this period is understood.
They'll shape the way it's understood by the next generation of people who are just like them, but I imagine they'll have about the same effect on the general public that the last generation's elite had on this one--which is to say, not much of one. To most people, "the '90's" is still Vanilla Ice, alternative rock, TLC, Bone Thugs-n-Harmony, etc., not Pavement and Slint; to most people, "the '80's" are still Bananarama and "Hey Mickey," not The Replacements and Minor Threat. Most "serious" music fans have no more of a clue what they're talking about than "lowbrow" music fans; ultimately it's just two different demographics of listener. Write 'em all off and like what you like.
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Birds in Hell wrote:In any case, they're probably right.
You’re right from your side
I’m right from mine

I guess I'd kinda hoped for some responses saying that No Code or Vitalogy were like LedZep4 or DSOTMoon and were highly regarded among the young rock stoner teens/uni/college guys. Is it just PJ or does Nevermind and the like fall into that too? Are Nirvana/RHCP/Soundgarden/AIC at all regarded or merely scoffed at?

Maybe when my son trawls through my music as a teen (even though he undoubtedly will be subjected to it before then), maybe he will treasure his 'discovery' then.
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What Kevin Davis said.
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theplatypus wrote:
durdencommatyler wrote:
theplatypus wrote:
cutuphalfdead wrote: I bet Pearl Jam fans have a lot to do with this. They're the worst.
I sent Chud a picture of pear jam once. Straight from my fridge.
I dare you to watch that video all the way through, with the sound on.
I like it .

He sings better than Vedder actually
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It's so terrible and awful and terrible and terrawful.
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Most of the people I hang with haven't got a clue about music generally, they like what they like but make zero effort to source new tuneage. I say you should never turn your back on your musical roots - like what you like and stand by it. Seriously, you'd rather not say that you like a band because of the reaction you're expecting? That's seriosuly weak sauce there. Grow a pair and who gives a fuck what anyone else thinks.
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