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Mind Your Manners

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stip wrote:
Strat wrote:
durdencommatyler wrote:
stip wrote:
durdencommatyler wrote:
stip wrote:Okay, in terms of what this song is about, here is my initial stab. The key is the second chorus. But before we get there, this song is about illusions. It's about trying to see past the veil that hides just how rapidly our world is falling apart. Learning to ignore the people who tell you there is no class conflict in the United States, who tell you that political protest and the aspiration for something better is rude, that it rocks the boat, that these people should learn to accept things the way they are and just go along with everyone else (think mainstream media reaction to Occupy Wall Street, for instance). That's the mind your manners part of the song. Just do what is expected of you. Well behaved people don't question. They don't cause trouble. The few religious references buttress this, but this isn't a song about religion, except insofar as religion is historically (especially in this country in this era) a tool for obedience.

Hence the muted siren at the start of the song. The suppression of alarm.


I think the chorus is the moment where the singer starts to realize that we have it within us to change this. The 'right around the corner could be bigger then ourselves and we could...something else (anything else) is the central lyric. It's a call to start imagining the possible. And if we don't we're stuck in the living hell he rails about at the end. These parts of the song are critical because the elevate the snark everywhere else. It gives it purpose.
Nice write up.

But I think this thing is seen entirely through a religious lens. This, to me, is about religious oppression and hypocrisy. Though, unfortunately, in this country politics and religion are hardly mutually exclusive.

And I'm really still doubting the "something else" bit. I'm just not hearing it. I'm hearing something more like "something real."
it could just be religion. i think the religion stuff is the vehicle for the larger point, rather than the point itself, but I could be totally off on that. The album should make that clearer.

and I think you're right about something real. That's certainly a point for your take if it's accurate.
I have no idea. I just wanted to get my thoughts out tonight. I just appreciate the conversation. And as you say, once we hear the whole album, some of this may become clearer. But it's entirely possible that I'm projecting, as what I think this song is about/is doing is near and dear to my heart. Maybe I WANT the song to be about that because that's what I agree with/can relate to.
Which point are you disagreeing with stip on ?
whether MYM is a song about religion you can tease a larger point out of, or whether MYM has a larger point and uses religion to make it.

So nothing, really.
I didnt think so!

That being said: This might have some pretty heavy religious influence after looking at the album artwork, the single artwork and the last phrase of MYM.
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cutuphalfdead wrote:I just listened to Push Me Pull Me from Constitution Hall and I like Mind Your Manners even less now.
I could hear you reaching on this one.
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Decent vocal performance by Ed wasted on a song with generic guitar work.
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digster wrote:
cutuphalfdead wrote:I just listened to Push Me Pull Me from Constitution Hall and I like Mind Your Manners even less now.
Everyone should know not to listen to Yield songs when wanting to enjoy anything else.
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Going to bed and I still love the shit out of this song. Just so much fun to listen to.
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all i can say is that it sounds meatier than the fast stuff on backspacer, so that's good.
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evenslow wrote:
cutuphalfdead wrote:I just listened to Push Me Pull Me from Constitution Hall and I like Mind Your Manners even less now.
I could hear you reaching on this one.
i smiled at this
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Strat wrote:
stip wrote:
Strat wrote:
durdencommatyler wrote:
stip wrote:
durdencommatyler wrote:
stip wrote:Okay, in terms of what this song is about, here is my initial stab. The key is the second chorus. But before we get there, this song is about illusions. It's about trying to see past the veil that hides just how rapidly our world is falling apart. Learning to ignore the people who tell you there is no class conflict in the United States, who tell you that political protest and the aspiration for something better is rude, that it rocks the boat, that these people should learn to accept things the way they are and just go along with everyone else (think mainstream media reaction to Occupy Wall Street, for instance). That's the mind your manners part of the song. Just do what is expected of you. Well behaved people don't question. They don't cause trouble. The few religious references buttress this, but this isn't a song about religion, except insofar as religion is historically (especially in this country in this era) a tool for obedience.

Hence the muted siren at the start of the song. The suppression of alarm.


I think the chorus is the moment where the singer starts to realize that we have it within us to change this. The 'right around the corner could be bigger then ourselves and we could...something else (anything else) is the central lyric. It's a call to start imagining the possible. And if we don't we're stuck in the living hell he rails about at the end. These parts of the song are critical because the elevate the snark everywhere else. It gives it purpose.
Nice write up.

But I think this thing is seen entirely through a religious lens. This, to me, is about religious oppression and hypocrisy. Though, unfortunately, in this country politics and religion are hardly mutually exclusive.

And I'm really still doubting the "something else" bit. I'm just not hearing it. I'm hearing something more like "something real."
it could just be religion. i think the religion stuff is the vehicle for the larger point, rather than the point itself, but I could be totally off on that. The album should make that clearer.

and I think you're right about something real. That's certainly a point for your take if it's accurate.
I have no idea. I just wanted to get my thoughts out tonight. I just appreciate the conversation. And as you say, once we hear the whole album, some of this may become clearer. But it's entirely possible that I'm projecting, as what I think this song is about/is doing is near and dear to my heart. Maybe I WANT the song to be about that because that's what I agree with/can relate to.
Which point are you disagreeing with stip on ?
whether MYM is a song about religion you can tease a larger point out of, or whether MYM has a larger point and uses religion to make it.

So nothing, really.
I didnt think so!

That being said: This might have some pretty heavy religious influence after looking at the album artwork, the single artwork and the last phrase of MYM.
Is it possible for it to be both? Cause I feel the big religious overtone being used to make a bigger point while at the same time circling the theme of questioning ones faith in that what has it done for us and if there is a god listening HELP US!! maybe its just me but I feel like the themes circle each other like they're in a giant mosh pit of awesome damn I love this song!! Sorry I'm tired but I really do love it.
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spike wrote:all i can say is that it sounds meatier than the fast stuff on backspacer, so that's good.
Really? I think "Gonna See My Friend" is pretty meaty. Underrated song too.
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darthvedder81 wrote:
spike wrote:all i can say is that it sounds meatier than the fast stuff on backspacer, so that's good.
Really? I think "Gonna See My Friend" is pretty meaty. Underrated song too.
Nah, GSMF tries to be meaty but ends up being as thin as the rest of Backspacer.
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What the F is this song about anyway? I feel like Ed is taking an angry/sarcastic posture but I have no idea towards what.
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darthvedder81 wrote:What the F is this song about anyway? I feel like Ed is taking an angry/sarcastic posture but I have no idea towards what.
Religion?
Dev wrote:i love listening to the leaked pj song "last word".
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stip wrote:
dimejinky99 wrote:LYRICS MIND YOUR MANNERS : seems the right ones!!!

I've got an unfortunate feeling
i've been beaten down
i feel i don't believe and now the truth is comin' out
what they take is more than a vow
they've taken your innocence and then they go around and burn and violate it

i'm only saying
mind your manners

i caught myself believing
that i needed god
and if it's out there somewhere
we sure could use it now

trying my patience
my patience's trying
this world don't know no better
and it makes me wanna cry

i'm only saying
mind your manners
someone say it

self-realized and metaphysically redeemed
may not live another life
may not solve a mystery
right around the corner
could be bigger than ourselves
we could will it to the sky
or we could something else

ya know, no one's sayin'
mind your manners
always praying

self-realized and metaphysically redeemed
may not live another life
may not solve a mystery
right around the corner
could be bigger than ourselves
we could will it to the sky
or we could something else

go to heaven
that's swell
how do you like it
living in hell

go to heaven
that's swell
how do you like it
living in hell

go to heaven
that's swell
how do you like it
living in hell

living in hell
That seems plausible. It's your take, dime?
No sir, saw it on Fb.
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I was hearing it as "solve our mystery".
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digster wrote:
cutuphalfdead wrote:I just listened to Push Me Pull Me from Constitution Hall and I like Mind Your Manners even less now.
Everyone should know not to listen to Yield songs when wanting to enjoy anything else.
Alternatively, if you want a less than polished 1998 performance to sound shit-hot - listen to modern day PJ.
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I hear:

Trying my patience
My patience tried
While a Western guitar motif lost on the swings drum bass fusion, get your own thoughts into the subconscious often forgotten. "Pendulum" is a sweeping soul from the ballast.
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WtOB? wrote:
darthvedder81 wrote:What the F is this song about anyway? I feel like Ed is taking an angry/sarcastic posture but I have no idea towards what.
Religion?
How can you tell other than the weird album art?
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darthvedder81 wrote:
WtOB? wrote:
darthvedder81 wrote:What the F is this song about anyway? I feel like Ed is taking an angry/sarcastic posture but I have no idea towards what.
Religion?
How can you tell other than the weird album art?
By listening to the lyrics.
Dev wrote:i love listening to the leaked pj song "last word".
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darthvedder81 wrote:
WtOB? wrote:
darthvedder81 wrote:What the F is this song about anyway? I feel like Ed is taking an angry/sarcastic posture but I have no idea towards what.
Religion?
How can you tell other than the weird album art?
The lyrics in the bridge, the references to God, the word "vow," the lyrics in the outro...
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WtOB? wrote:
darthvedder81 wrote:
WtOB? wrote:
darthvedder81 wrote:What the F is this song about anyway? I feel like Ed is taking an angry/sarcastic posture but I have no idea towards what.
Religion?
How can you tell other than the weird album art?
By listening to the lyrics.
I dunno. I hear (or read more accurately) the buzzwords but it just sounds muddled and unfocused to me.
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