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Re: RMers with kids
Posted: Wed January 31, 2024 11:20 pm
by doug rr
spike wrote:Since we were both up most of the night, she just wrapped an epic nap and seems herself. Says she feels good, no fever, and hasn’t spewed since 8:30am or so. We’ll see what tonight brings, but perhaps out of the woods.
great news..you should take her out for a beer since mom is gone
Re: RMers with kids
Posted: Wed January 31, 2024 11:45 pm
by spike
doug rr wrote:spike wrote:Since we were both up most of the night, she just wrapped an epic nap and seems herself. Says she feels good, no fever, and hasn’t spewed since 8:30am or so. We’ll see what tonight brings, but perhaps out of the woods.
great news..you should take her out for a beer since mom is gone
Maybe tomorrow night. Don’t wanna push it.
Re: RMers with kids
Posted: Thu February 01, 2024 1:12 pm
by washing machine
My son's class was offered a break dancing demo last week and he loved it enough for us to want to sign him up for sessions. The stuff he showed me looked like Elaine Benes dance moves so he's got a long way to go.
Re: RMers with kids
Posted: Thu February 01, 2024 2:29 pm
by spike
Are you human or are you dancer, Reid?
Re: RMers with kids
Posted: Fri February 02, 2024 2:25 am
by Higgs
My son got back from his Euro trip in August but still had some money left over. Since then he's only done a single unit at Uni (he's meant to be full time but pre-requisites messed him around) and hasn't worked at all.
The past 3 days he was up all night gaming and slept all day. This shit will not stand and came to a head last night.
I love my son but my fuck can he be lazy and entitled at times. Then again, he's one of the most socially mature and reasonable and calm people I know as well. I hate fighting with my kids, I really do.
Anyway, today's a new day and he seems to have started it far better - I went with him and hired a trailer and he's taking his old beer pong table to a mate's and then getting rid of a whole heap of garden waste for his Grandma. After the shouting last night we spoke with him about his mental health and how his physical activity/health relates to that, and that was a good discussion. In the end we all have a responsibility to take care of ourselves so that we can look after each other.
Raising kids is tough and I'm not sure it gets any easier as they age to be honest. Especially living in today's economic and social and political climate.
Re: RMers with kids
Posted: Fri February 02, 2024 2:42 am
by wease
Higgs wrote:My son got back from his Euro trip in August but still had some money left over. Since then he's only done a single unit at Uni (he's meant to be full time but pre-requisites messed him around) and hasn't worked at all.
The past 3 days he was up all night gaming and slept all day. This shit will not stand and came to a head last night.
I love my son but my fuck can he be lazy and entitled at times. Then again, he's one of the most socially mature and reasonable and calm people I know as well. I hate fighting with my kids, I really do.
Anyway, today's a new day and he seems to have started it far better - I went with him and hired a trailer and he's taking his old beer pong table to a mate's and then getting rid of a whole heap of garden waste for his Grandma. After the shouting last night we spoke with him about his mental health and how his physical activity/health relates to that, and that was a good discussion. In the end we all have a responsibility to take care of ourselves so that we can look after each other.
Raising kids is tough and I'm not sure it gets any easier as they age to be honest. Especially living in today's economic and social and political climate.
Great work dadding, friend Higgs. Always good when the parents score.
Re: RMers with kids
Posted: Fri February 02, 2024 2:57 am
by Higgs
Cheers wease. He's actually off down south with a few mates for the weekend this afternoon, so that's a great thing. He is so much better when he's active and up and about, so really happy he's heading away for some fun.
And as an added bonus me and the wiffey get the house to ourselves! Pants optional weekend! Yes!
Re: RMers with kids
Posted: Fri February 02, 2024 3:01 am
by tragabigzanda
Carl Sandburg wrote:There is a wolf in me . . . fangs pointed for tearing gashes . . . a red tongue for raw meat . . . and the hot lapping of blood—I keep this wolf because the wilderness gave it to me and the wilderness will not let it go.
There is a fox in me . . . a silver-gray fox . . . I sniff and guess . . . I pick things out of the wind and air . . . I nose in the dark night and take sleepers and eat them and hide the feathers . . . I circle and loop and double-cross.
There is a hog in me . . . a snout and a belly . . . a machinery for eating and grunting . . . a machinery for sleeping satisfied in the sun—I got this too from the wilderness and the wilderness will not let it go.
There is a fish in me . . . I know I came from salt-blue water-gates . . . I scurried with shoals of herring . . . I blew waterspouts with porpoises . . . before land was . . . before the water went down . . . before Noah . . . before the first chapter of Genesis.
There is a baboon in me . . . clambering-clawed . . . dog-faced . . . yawping a galoot's hunger . . . hairy under the armpits . . . here are the hawk-eyed hankering men . . . here are the blonde and blue-eyed women . . . here they hide curled asleep waiting . . . ready to snarl and kill . . . ready to sing and give milk . . . waiting—I keep the baboon because the wilderness says so.
There is an eagle in me and a mockingbird . . . and the eagle flies among the Rocky Mountains of my dreams and fights among the Sierra crags of what I want . . . and the mockingbird warbles in the early forenoon before the dew is gone, warbles in the underbrush of my Chattanoogas of hope, gushes over the blue Ozark foothills of my wishes—And I got the eagle and the mockingbird from the wilderness.
O, I got a zoo, I got a menagerie, inside my ribs, under my bony head, under my red-valve heart—and I got something else: it is a man-child heart, a woman-child heart: it is a father and mother and lover: it came from God-Knows-Where: it is going to God-Knows-Where—For I am the keeper of the zoo: I say yes and no: I sing and kill and work: I am a pal of the world: I came from the wilderness.
Re: RMers with kids
Posted: Fri February 02, 2024 3:49 am
by LetMeSleep

It's hard to be a good parent. Easy choices aren't always the best. It helps when you have a kid who listens and understands and that is built up over years.
Enjoy the weekend Higgs and Mrs Higgs, ya dirty old kids yourselves.
Re: RMers with kids
Posted: Mon February 12, 2024 7:40 pm
by spike
We had our kid’s party at a space where they organize an individual art project for each kid, so you pay by the head. One parent brought the older sibling of one of my kid’s classmates, so I guess we lucked out that one kid couldn’t come due to illness.
I guess in the future, we have to be crystal clear about who is invited to avoid an awkward predicament!
Re: RMers with kids
Posted: Fri March 08, 2024 8:49 pm
by spike
Several weeks ago, the kid started waking up around 6am and immediately bothering us for breakfast etc. We’ve been awaiting DST to perhaps remedy this, so of course now that it’s just days away, she’s slept in past 7am the past few mornings. Expert trolling.
Re: RMers with kids
Posted: Fri March 08, 2024 8:54 pm
by wease
She’s on to you and your tricks
Re: RMers with kids
Posted: Mon March 11, 2024 5:07 pm
by tragabigzanda
Carl Sandburg wrote:There is a wolf in me . . . fangs pointed for tearing gashes . . . a red tongue for raw meat . . . and the hot lapping of blood—I keep this wolf because the wilderness gave it to me and the wilderness will not let it go.
There is a fox in me . . . a silver-gray fox . . . I sniff and guess . . . I pick things out of the wind and air . . . I nose in the dark night and take sleepers and eat them and hide the feathers . . . I circle and loop and double-cross.
There is a hog in me . . . a snout and a belly . . . a machinery for eating and grunting . . . a machinery for sleeping satisfied in the sun—I got this too from the wilderness and the wilderness will not let it go.
There is a fish in me . . . I know I came from salt-blue water-gates . . . I scurried with shoals of herring . . . I blew waterspouts with porpoises . . . before land was . . . before the water went down . . . before Noah . . . before the first chapter of Genesis.
There is a baboon in me . . . clambering-clawed . . . dog-faced . . . yawping a galoot's hunger . . . hairy under the armpits . . . here are the hawk-eyed hankering men . . . here are the blonde and blue-eyed women . . . here they hide curled asleep waiting . . . ready to snarl and kill . . . ready to sing and give milk . . . waiting—I keep the baboon because the wilderness says so.
There is an eagle in me and a mockingbird . . . and the eagle flies among the Rocky Mountains of my dreams and fights among the Sierra crags of what I want . . . and the mockingbird warbles in the early forenoon before the dew is gone, warbles in the underbrush of my Chattanoogas of hope, gushes over the blue Ozark foothills of my wishes—And I got the eagle and the mockingbird from the wilderness.
O, I got a zoo, I got a menagerie, inside my ribs, under my bony head, under my red-valve heart—and I got something else: it is a man-child heart, a woman-child heart: it is a father and mother and lover: it came from God-Knows-Where: it is going to God-Knows-Where—For I am the keeper of the zoo: I say yes and no: I sing and kill and work: I am a pal of the world: I came from the wilderness.
Re: RMers with kids
Posted: Mon March 11, 2024 5:13 pm
by E.H. Ruddock
tragabigzanda wrote:Past week has been a rabbit hole of symptoms and doctor's visits to finally arrive at a diagnosis of "Henoch-Schonlein purpura (HSP)." Seems to be quite preferable to the alternative "Immune thrombocytopenia purpura (ITP)," and my kid's case of HSP is "literally the mildest I've ever seen," according to my doc.
All should be well, as long as we follow through on six months of regular checkups, starting weekly but gradually tapering off. Most likely she'll completely outgrow the condition.
Ear infection on top of all that. F'n drag but very thankful it's nothing worse, and that we have good health insurance. Mr. & Mrs. Trag are tired; most of my Dark Matter shitposting has been happening from a doctor's office!
try having twins
Re: RMers with kids
Posted: Mon March 11, 2024 5:32 pm
by wease
tragabigzanda wrote:Past week has been a rabbit hole of symptoms and doctor's visits to finally arrive at a diagnosis of "Henoch-Schonlein purpura (HSP)." Seems to be quite preferable to the alternative "Immune thrombocytopenia purpura (ITP)," and my kid's case of HSP is "literally the mildest I've ever seen," according to my doc.
All should be well, as long as we follow through on six months of regular checkups, starting weekly but gradually tapering off. Most likely she'll completely outgrow the condition.
Ear infection on top of all that. F'n drag but very thankful it's nothing worse, and that we have good health insurance. Mr. & Mrs. Trag are tired; most of my Dark Matter shitposting has been happening from a doctor's office!
Did she have the rash or was it some of the other symptoms that led to you having her checked out?
Re: RMers with kids
Posted: Mon March 11, 2024 5:46 pm
by tragabigzanda
Carl Sandburg wrote:There is a wolf in me . . . fangs pointed for tearing gashes . . . a red tongue for raw meat . . . and the hot lapping of blood—I keep this wolf because the wilderness gave it to me and the wilderness will not let it go.
There is a fox in me . . . a silver-gray fox . . . I sniff and guess . . . I pick things out of the wind and air . . . I nose in the dark night and take sleepers and eat them and hide the feathers . . . I circle and loop and double-cross.
There is a hog in me . . . a snout and a belly . . . a machinery for eating and grunting . . . a machinery for sleeping satisfied in the sun—I got this too from the wilderness and the wilderness will not let it go.
There is a fish in me . . . I know I came from salt-blue water-gates . . . I scurried with shoals of herring . . . I blew waterspouts with porpoises . . . before land was . . . before the water went down . . . before Noah . . . before the first chapter of Genesis.
There is a baboon in me . . . clambering-clawed . . . dog-faced . . . yawping a galoot's hunger . . . hairy under the armpits . . . here are the hawk-eyed hankering men . . . here are the blonde and blue-eyed women . . . here they hide curled asleep waiting . . . ready to snarl and kill . . . ready to sing and give milk . . . waiting—I keep the baboon because the wilderness says so.
There is an eagle in me and a mockingbird . . . and the eagle flies among the Rocky Mountains of my dreams and fights among the Sierra crags of what I want . . . and the mockingbird warbles in the early forenoon before the dew is gone, warbles in the underbrush of my Chattanoogas of hope, gushes over the blue Ozark foothills of my wishes—And I got the eagle and the mockingbird from the wilderness.
O, I got a zoo, I got a menagerie, inside my ribs, under my bony head, under my red-valve heart—and I got something else: it is a man-child heart, a woman-child heart: it is a father and mother and lover: it came from God-Knows-Where: it is going to God-Knows-Where—For I am the keeper of the zoo: I say yes and no: I sing and kill and work: I am a pal of the world: I came from the wilderness.
Re: RMers with kids
Posted: Mon March 11, 2024 5:47 pm
by tragabigzanda
Carl Sandburg wrote:There is a wolf in me . . . fangs pointed for tearing gashes . . . a red tongue for raw meat . . . and the hot lapping of blood—I keep this wolf because the wilderness gave it to me and the wilderness will not let it go.
There is a fox in me . . . a silver-gray fox . . . I sniff and guess . . . I pick things out of the wind and air . . . I nose in the dark night and take sleepers and eat them and hide the feathers . . . I circle and loop and double-cross.
There is a hog in me . . . a snout and a belly . . . a machinery for eating and grunting . . . a machinery for sleeping satisfied in the sun—I got this too from the wilderness and the wilderness will not let it go.
There is a fish in me . . . I know I came from salt-blue water-gates . . . I scurried with shoals of herring . . . I blew waterspouts with porpoises . . . before land was . . . before the water went down . . . before Noah . . . before the first chapter of Genesis.
There is a baboon in me . . . clambering-clawed . . . dog-faced . . . yawping a galoot's hunger . . . hairy under the armpits . . . here are the hawk-eyed hankering men . . . here are the blonde and blue-eyed women . . . here they hide curled asleep waiting . . . ready to snarl and kill . . . ready to sing and give milk . . . waiting—I keep the baboon because the wilderness says so.
There is an eagle in me and a mockingbird . . . and the eagle flies among the Rocky Mountains of my dreams and fights among the Sierra crags of what I want . . . and the mockingbird warbles in the early forenoon before the dew is gone, warbles in the underbrush of my Chattanoogas of hope, gushes over the blue Ozark foothills of my wishes—And I got the eagle and the mockingbird from the wilderness.
O, I got a zoo, I got a menagerie, inside my ribs, under my bony head, under my red-valve heart—and I got something else: it is a man-child heart, a woman-child heart: it is a father and mother and lover: it came from God-Knows-Where: it is going to God-Knows-Where—For I am the keeper of the zoo: I say yes and no: I sing and kill and work: I am a pal of the world: I came from the wilderness.
Re: RMers with kids
Posted: Mon March 11, 2024 5:49 pm
by Monkey_Driven
Good to hear she was diagnosed and there is a treatment plan.
Re: RMers with kids
Posted: Mon March 11, 2024 6:09 pm
by wease
tragabigzanda wrote:Sounds like you are familiar with this wease?
Not personally, but over the years have dealt with patients where it was a possible diagnosis before being ruled out.
Re: RMers with kids
Posted: Mon March 11, 2024 7:28 pm
by spike
Damn that’s scary trag. Glad you finally have a diagnosis and she’ll be okay!