Red Mosquito

Ms Harmless wrote:

tree_ wrote:

Ms Harmless wrote:

Ello Sailor wrote:Trag is a monstrous dickhead and Harmless is overly sensitive.

Both can be true. Hope this helps.

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can you tell me when being "overly sensitive" became a moral failing? all of my friends respect my sensitivity; I say I'm not good with the ribbing and the roasting, they respect that and don't do it

So you can admit that he may not be intending to hurt you, but because of your personality, you tend to interpret it this way

*sigh* you're right, hurt is all about someone's intention and the fault is all mine for being upset

I'll see you when the album's out

Strat wrote:

tree_ wrote:

tragabigzanda wrote:

Strat wrote:Also we've already called trag a monster! His lunacy is right out there for all of us!

Yeah it's not like everyone is just applauding my posts all the time. I've been fighting an uphill battle since the first single came out and have taken a lot of flack for it. I mostly perceive it as good natured fun.

It's a misunderstanding and clash of personalities. You've admitted to enjoying a good ribbing, in which you participate as a sign of love and friendship. Ms. Harmless has admitted many times to being very sensitive to bullying behaviour in part to her personal struggle with real life bullies. I think it's the right thing to do to at least make an effort to be kinder to people when they ask you to.

Shut the fuck up

McParadigm wrote:

Monkey_Driven wrote:Monstrous Dickhead, now that's a song title.

Monstrous dickhead, truth be told
I don't need you to live but I'll never let you go, yeah

tree_ wrote:

Ms Harmless wrote:

tree_ wrote:

Ms Harmless wrote:

Ello Sailor wrote:Trag is a monstrous dickhead and Harmless is overly sensitive.

Both can be true. Hope this helps.

Spoiler: show

can you tell me when being "overly sensitive" became a moral failing? all of my friends respect my sensitivity; I say I'm not good with the ribbing and the roasting, they respect that and don't do it

So you can admit that he may not be intending to hurt you, but because of your personality, you tend to interpret it this way

*sigh* you're right, hurt is all about someone's intention and the fault is all mine for being upset

I'll see you when the album's out

I didn't say that. You have every right to feel hurt. And as I said before, I think the right thing to do is listen to someone when they say they feel negatively effected by one's actions, and attempt to correct course, even if the intention was pure.

Ms Harmless wrote:

tree_ wrote:

Ms Harmless wrote:

tree_ wrote:

Ms Harmless wrote:

Ello Sailor wrote:Trag is a monstrous dickhead and Harmless is overly sensitive.

Both can be true. Hope this helps.

Spoiler: show

can you tell me when being "overly sensitive" became a moral failing? all of my friends respect my sensitivity; I say I'm not good with the ribbing and the roasting, they respect that and don't do it

So you can admit that he may not be intending to hurt you, but because of your personality, you tend to interpret it this way

*sigh* you're right, hurt is all about someone's intention and the fault is all mine for being upset

I'll see you when the album's out

I didn't say that. You have every right to feel hurt. And as I said before, I think the right thing to do is listen to someone when they say they feel negatively effected by one's actions, and attempt to correct course, even if the intention was pure.

so why bother asking me if I think I'm being a tad too sensitive "because of my personality"? are we really making this about my innate character vs. (some of) Trag's actions?

tree_ wrote:

Ms Harmless wrote:

tree_ wrote:

Ms Harmless wrote:

tree_ wrote:

Ms Harmless wrote:

Ello Sailor wrote:Trag is a monstrous dickhead and Harmless is overly sensitive.

Both can be true. Hope this helps.

Spoiler: show

can you tell me when being "overly sensitive" became a moral failing? all of my friends respect my sensitivity; I say I'm not good with the ribbing and the roasting, they respect that and don't do it

So you can admit that he may not be intending to hurt you, but because of your personality, you tend to interpret it this way

*sigh* you're right, hurt is all about someone's intention and the fault is all mine for being upset

I'll see you when the album's out

I didn't say that. You have every right to feel hurt. And as I said before, I think the right thing to do is listen to someone when they say they feel negatively effected by one's actions, and attempt to correct course, even if the intention was pure.

so why bother asking me if I think I'm being a tad too sensitive "because of my personality"? are we really making this about my innate character vs. (some of) Trag's actions?

If you take a step back, you might be able to see that you interpret trag's behaviour differently from others (maybe most others), because of your unique personality. and that might help to give him a little more benefit of the doubt

Kevin Davis wrote:

Strat wrote:Harmless is guilty of all of these things. She's It as direct with her choice of words but make no mistake she is just as eager to act out similar behavior. It's just more passive. And gaslighting

It is possible that I have missed some things; a lot of these threads have moved quickly through a lot of pages. And if I have mischaracterized anyone, I apologize. But, from my limited viewpoint, what I am seeing is a catch-all attempt to lump all of MH’s sensitivity into a blanket inability to handle simple disagreement, and that feels like gaslighting to me

Ms Harmless wrote:it's kind of amazing that you'd paint my evaluation of that as "my unique personality"