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Re: RMers with kids

Posted: Wed March 26, 2025 3:38 am
by Higgs
Son is on day 7 post-ACL op and has fully rediscovered his time-sucking love of PC games. I need him to get better and fuck off back to Broome. I want my quiet peaceful just-us-two house back.

I love him dearly but he is a pain-in-the-arse as a patient. And I have little patience.

Re: RMers with kids

Posted: Wed March 26, 2025 6:18 am
by spike
Higgs wrote:Allowing casual clothes day sounds like a recipe for absolute disaster to me. Glad you got through relatively unscathed.
They were nightmares back in Chicago when she was younger. I think she thought no more uniform after that, so the days after were battles. I think she’s old enough now to understand it was a one off thing, and back in the school dress tomorrow.

Re: RMers with kids

Posted: Wed March 26, 2025 4:49 pm
by Sloppy Dupree
For RMers with kids—what careers would you (secretly) want your kids to pursue?

Re: RMers with kids

Posted: Wed March 26, 2025 4:50 pm
by tragabigzanda
Carl Sandburg wrote:There is a wolf in me . . . fangs pointed for tearing gashes . . . a red tongue for raw meat . . . and the hot lapping of blood—I keep this wolf because the wilderness gave it to me and the wilderness will not let it go.

There is a fox in me . . . a silver-gray fox . . . I sniff and guess . . . I pick things out of the wind and air . . . I nose in the dark night and take sleepers and eat them and hide the feathers . . . I circle and loop and double-cross.

There is a hog in me . . . a snout and a belly . . . a machinery for eating and grunting . . . a machinery for sleeping satisfied in the sun—I got this too from the wilderness and the wilderness will not let it go.

There is a fish in me . . . I know I came from salt-blue water-gates . . . I scurried with shoals of herring . . . I blew waterspouts with porpoises . . . before land was . . . before the water went down . . . before Noah . . . before the first chapter of Genesis.

There is a baboon in me . . . clambering-clawed . . . dog-faced . . . yawping a galoot's hunger . . . hairy under the armpits . . . here are the hawk-eyed hankering men . . . here are the blonde and blue-eyed women . . . here they hide curled asleep waiting . . . ready to snarl and kill . . . ready to sing and give milk . . . waiting—I keep the baboon because the wilderness says so.

There is an eagle in me and a mockingbird . . . and the eagle flies among the Rocky Mountains of my dreams and fights among the Sierra crags of what I want . . . and the mockingbird warbles in the early forenoon before the dew is gone, warbles in the underbrush of my Chattanoogas of hope, gushes over the blue Ozark foothills of my wishes—And I got the eagle and the mockingbird from the wilderness.

O, I got a zoo, I got a menagerie, inside my ribs, under my bony head, under my red-valve heart—and I got something else: it is a man-child heart, a woman-child heart: it is a father and mother and lover: it came from God-Knows-Where: it is going to God-Knows-Where—For I am the keeper of the zoo: I say yes and no: I sing and kill and work: I am a pal of the world: I came from the wilderness.

Re: RMers with kids

Posted: Wed March 26, 2025 4:54 pm
by Sloppy Dupree
tragabigzanda wrote:
Sloppy Dupree wrote:For RMers with kids—what careers would you (secretly) want your kids to pursue?
not the arts
That’s understandable.

I have none of my own, but if I did, I’d be worried. It’s becoming increasingly difficult for wages to be sufficient for a comfortable life. Not optimistic it’ll get any better.

Re: RMers with kids

Posted: Wed March 26, 2025 4:55 pm
by Sloppy Dupree
Although inter-generational wealth transfers always help.

Re: RMers with kids

Posted: Wed March 26, 2025 5:01 pm
by Sloppy Dupree
For example I always marvel about how my best friend never seems worried about work. Then I remember he’s the sole beneficiary of a $750,000 home and his parents are both 85ish. All he has to do is ride it out.

Anyway, I digress.

Work hard, RM parents. For the kids’ sakes!

Re: RMers with kids

Posted: Wed March 26, 2025 6:13 pm
by Monkey_Driven
Sloppy Dupree wrote:For RMers with kids—what careers would you (secretly) want your kids to pursue?
Engineering or healthcare of some kind. But, they'll probably be in education.

Re: RMers with kids

Posted: Wed March 26, 2025 6:46 pm
by doug rr
no kids here thank god but I'd say I would want a hard throwing lefty with a good head on his/her shoulders

Re: RMers with kids

Posted: Wed March 26, 2025 6:59 pm
by doug rr
White House press secretary

Re: RMers with kids

Posted: Wed March 26, 2025 7:04 pm
by doug rr
manage a local chain steakhouse

Re: RMers with kids

Posted: Wed March 26, 2025 7:05 pm
by doug rr
drummer or bass player

Re: RMers with kids

Posted: Wed March 26, 2025 7:11 pm
by doug rr
a senator

Re: RMers with kids

Posted: Wed March 26, 2025 7:14 pm
by doug rr
Buca di Beppo

Re: RMers with kids

Posted: Wed March 26, 2025 7:24 pm
by doug rr
pundit

Re: RMers with kids

Posted: Wed March 26, 2025 7:43 pm
by Rangi Guy
My 9 year old wants to be a marine biologist of all thngs - kinda hope she sticks with that

Re: RMers with kids

Posted: Wed March 26, 2025 7:47 pm
by E.H. Ruddock
Rangi Guy wrote:My 9 year old wants to be a marine biologist of all thngs - kinda hope she sticks with that
That's what I wanted to be: Went to camps and shit throughout middle school and high school. Got to college and learned 90% of Marine Biologists just studied plankton and krill for the first 20 years on barely minimum wage. Better to disappoint her now than let her go through what I did!

Re: RMers with kids

Posted: Wed March 26, 2025 7:48 pm
by doug rr
Rangi Guy wrote:My 9 year old wants to be a marine biologist of all thngs - kinda hope she sticks with that
does she like calamari?

Re: RMers with kids

Posted: Thu March 27, 2025 6:02 pm
by Monkey_Driven
My youngest wants to be Han Solo with a jetpack (I asked him this morning; he's 3.5).


Sounds pretty rad.

Re: RMers with kids

Posted: Thu March 27, 2025 6:10 pm
by Sloppy Dupree
Monkey_Driven wrote:My youngest wants to be Han Solo with a jetpack (I asked him this morning; he's 3.5).


Sounds pretty rad.
I think that means he’s going to be an undercover narcotics officer.