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[Chris_H_2]

But if you recognize them as human beings you'd be more inclined to tip them before leaving

What’s the average percent you tip (if anything)?

[lennytheweedwhacker]

If they introduce themselves by name, I address them by name. It's not "an exercise of power," jeez

Don’t they pretty much always introduce themselves by name?

[lennytheweedwhacker]

I’m working under the assumption we’re talking about sit down restaurants

[Bi_3]

If they introduce themselves by name, I address them by name. It's not "an exercise of power," jeez

yeah, why can't i treat them like a human?

How does using sir or ma’am qualify as inhumane?

[BurtReynolds]

If they introduce themselves by name, I address them by name. It's not "an exercise of power," jeez

yeah, why can't i treat them like a human?

This would give them false hope of improving their station in life.

[Jorge]

There's nothing wrong with calling them "sir" or "ma'am" either

[Jorge]

If they introduce themselves by name, I address them by name. It's not "an exercise of power," jeez

Don’t they pretty much always introduce themselves by name?

Not down here

[dad]

If they introduce themselves by name, I address them by name. It's not "an exercise of power," jeez

yeah, why can't i treat them like a human?

How does using sir or ma’am qualify as inhumane?

i never said it did.

[lennytheweedwhacker]

If they introduce themselves by name, I address them by name. It's not "an exercise of power," jeez

Don’t they pretty much always introduce themselves by name?

Not down here

Who cares about down there this is America

[dad]

If they introduce themselves by name, I address them by name. It's not "an exercise of power," jeez

Don’t they pretty much always introduce themselves by name?

Not down here

Who cares about down there this is America

he also lives in America.

[tree_]

But if you recognize them as human beings you'd be more inclined to tip them before leaving

What’s the average percent you tip (if anything)?

I don't ever tip, because I don't get a say in the matter. Raz handles it every time. She usually tips something ridiculous even if it's subpar service.

[dad]

if they introduce themselves by name, I'm going to use it. doesn't mean we're friends now. it's just being polite to someone whose job is serving me.

if i sit up at the bar, i usually ask their name if they don't introduce themselves.

[Chris_H_2]

But if you recognize them as human beings you'd be more inclined to tip them before leaving

What’s the average percent you tip (if anything)?

I don't ever tip, because I don't get a say in the matter. Raz handles it every time. She usually tips something ridiculous even if it's subpar service.

You’ve never gone to a restaurant without her?

[Chris_H_2]

Teams Jorge and Dad

[Bi_3]

Next time you’re in the situation just casually watch. I’d bet the majority of folks carry on the interaction without using names even if the server introduces themselves.


And dad, I agree about sitting at the bar. I always uses names there because it’s a more intimate interaction

[tree_]

But if you recognize them as human beings you'd be more inclined to tip them before leaving

What’s the average percent you tip (if anything)?

I don't ever tip, because I don't get a say in the matter. Raz handles it every time. She usually tips something ridiculous even if it's subpar service.

You’ve never gone to a restaurant without her?

Not in the last say... 10 years. I don't remember what I did before that. Probably a small tip. Fucking hate eating out.

[dad]

And dad, I agree about sitting at the bar. I always uses names there because it’s a more intimate interaction

Absolutely, 100 percent.

my wife and I regularly have a date night, and we prefer sitting at the bar for that very reason. that, and quicker access to drinks.

[lennytheweedwhacker]

If they introduce themselves by name, I address them by name. It's not "an exercise of power," jeez

Don’t they pretty much always introduce themselves by name?

Not down here

Who cares about down there this is America

he also lives in America.

If it ain’t white America it don’t count

[BurtReynolds]

I find strangers calling me by my name to be off-putting tbh.

[tree_]

I find strangers calling me by my name to be off-putting tbh.

Same. It's even worse when they call you like, Honey, or Darlin'. I don't care if it's the South. Just stop it.