Where was my crew when you called me a condescending prick for a post I was making fun of trag about and you thought it was about you? How's the air up there?RockPusher wrote:MH is right- this is classic bully behavior. Dude with 45,000 posts who knows he has a crew who will defend him laughs at people expressing an alternative opinion. Sure, it's not going to hurt VG at all, but it's going to affect other posters who are more sensitive to that, and who have multiple times made that clear. Get over yourself, trag. When you talk about what you know, we listen, but you are better than this.tragabigzanda wrote:VinylGuy wrote:changed this one from 4 stars to 5. Its probably in the middle but damn this one is really getting me these days
The energy is fucking awesome and yes, i know love Mike´s solo here
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are Ruddo and Trag the same person?
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"I'm not a bully because the person I laughed at didn't feel bullied... did you mate?"tragabigzanda wrote:my man...you're a moron. The moment VG expresses a problem with the way we interact, I'll respect it. I'm not terribly worried about it because we have a solid relationship. Great guy, great sense of humor. Not every "lol" is an attack.RockPusher wrote:MH is right- this is classic bully behavior. Dude with 45,000 posts who knows he has a crew who will defend him laughs at people expressing an alternative opinion. Sure, it's not going to hurt VG at all, but it's going to affect other posters who are more sensitive to that, and who have multiple times made that clear. Get over yourself, trag. When you talk about what you know, we listen, but you are better than this.tragabigzanda wrote:VinylGuy wrote:changed this one from 4 stars to 5. Its probably in the middle but damn this one is really getting me these days
The energy is fucking awesome and yes, i know love Mike´s solo here
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Sorry, but why would someone qualify as a bully when there is no victim?Ms Harmless wrote:"I'm not a bully because the person I laughed at didn't feel bullied... did you mate?"tragabigzanda wrote:my man...you're a moron. The moment VG expresses a problem with the way we interact, I'll respect it. I'm not terribly worried about it because we have a solid relationship. Great guy, great sense of humor. Not every "lol" is an attack.RockPusher wrote:MH is right- this is classic bully behavior. Dude with 45,000 posts who knows he has a crew who will defend him laughs at people expressing an alternative opinion. Sure, it's not going to hurt VG at all, but it's going to affect other posters who are more sensitive to that, and who have multiple times made that clear. Get over yourself, trag. When you talk about what you know, we listen, but you are better than this.tragabigzanda wrote:VinylGuy wrote:changed this one from 4 stars to 5. Its probably in the middle but damn this one is really getting me these days
The energy is fucking awesome and yes, i know love Mike´s solo here
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uh-huhtree_ wrote:Sorry, but why would someone qualify as a bully when there is no victim?Ms Harmless wrote:"I'm not a bully because the person I laughed at didn't feel bullied... did you mate?"tragabigzanda wrote:my man...you're a moron. The moment VG expresses a problem with the way we interact, I'll respect it. I'm not terribly worried about it because we have a solid relationship. Great guy, great sense of humor. Not every "lol" is an attack.RockPusher wrote:MH is right- this is classic bully behavior. Dude with 45,000 posts who knows he has a crew who will defend him laughs at people expressing an alternative opinion. Sure, it's not going to hurt VG at all, but it's going to affect other posters who are more sensitive to that, and who have multiple times made that clear. Get over yourself, trag. When you talk about what you know, we listen, but you are better than this.tragabigzanda wrote:VinylGuy wrote:changed this one from 4 stars to 5. Its probably in the middle but damn this one is really getting me these days
The energy is fucking awesome and yes, i know love Mike´s solo here
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Ah, I see. it is only bullying when you say it is, not if someone else feels attacked. But I'm sure whatever response to this will be something along the lines of "I never said... " or "you don't get to..."Ms Harmless wrote:are Ruddo and Trag the same person?
Please, tell me how I should post and infer posts on this board. Clearly there is only one way!
Dark Matter is a fucking great song you guys!
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Also, if you read as many posts as you make, you would know I've never called you any names or even argued about shit with you. I just tried to defend the right to criticize the music. But sure, let's generalize everyone that disagrees with you now into one poster. Easier that way, eh?Ms Harmless wrote:are Ruddo and Trag the same person?
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you responded to a post that wasn't about you, I recall that you don't like people doing that; RP was defending me, it might have been nice for you to let it stand but no, you couldn't, and you can't hereE.H. Ruddock wrote:Ah, I see. it is only bullying when you say it is, not if someone else feels attacked. But I'm sure whatever response to this will be something along the lines of "I never said... " or "you don't get to..."Ms Harmless wrote:are Ruddo and Trag the same person?
Please, tell me how I should post and infer posts on this board. Clearly there is only one way!
Dark Matter is a fucking great song you guys!
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this isn't about youE.H. Ruddock wrote:Also, if you read as many posts as you make, you would know I've never called you any names or even argued about shit with you. I just tried to defend the right to criticize the music. But sure, let's generalize everyone that disagrees with you now into one poster. Easier that way, eh?Ms Harmless wrote:are Ruddo and Trag the same person?
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I was calling out RP's hypocrisy on bullying. But I guess you are the only one that should be defended?Ms Harmless wrote:you responded to a post that wasn't about you, I recall that you don't like people doing that; RP was defending me, it might have been nice for you to let it stand but no, you couldn't, and you can't hereE.H. Ruddock wrote:Ah, I see. it is only bullying when you say it is, not if someone else feels attacked. But I'm sure whatever response to this will be something along the lines of "I never said... " or "you don't get to..."Ms Harmless wrote:are Ruddo and Trag the same person?
Please, tell me how I should post and infer posts on this board. Clearly there is only one way!
Dark Matter is a fucking great song you guys!
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I think what some people might have a problem with is your refusal or inability to see other peoples' perspectives clearly before passing judgement, which might come across as hypocritical and unfair
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I'm utterly baffled that a few people can't understand the difference between expressing distaste for a song (absolutely fine), and mocking and psychoanalyzing others for enjoying it (bullying, even if you want to turn round and tell me "they liked it!!!")
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yeah I've tried to do that before, it didn't go wellE.H. Ruddock wrote:I was calling out RP's hypocrisy on bullying. But I guess you are the only one that should be defended?Ms Harmless wrote:you responded to a post that wasn't about you, I recall that you don't like people doing that; RP was defending me, it might have been nice for you to let it stand but no, you couldn't, and you can't hereE.H. Ruddock wrote:Ah, I see. it is only bullying when you say it is, not if someone else feels attacked. But I'm sure whatever response to this will be something along the lines of "I never said... " or "you don't get to..."Ms Harmless wrote:are Ruddo and Trag the same person?
Please, tell me how I should post and infer posts on this board. Clearly there is only one way!
Dark Matter is a fucking great song you guys!
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It's legit wildMs Harmless wrote:I'm utterly baffled that a few people can't understand the difference between expressing distaste for a song (absolutely fine), and mocking and psychoanalyzing others for enjoying it (bullying, even if you want to turn round and tell me "they liked it!!!")