Red Mosquito

Posted: **Mon June 05, 2023 7:39 pm**

Malloy wrote:my anxiety is so profoundly out of control. med time again.

what do you do when you can't control your thoughts, when you're heart rate is high, and you're out of breath, too scared and worked up to sleep. already been to the er on friday.

Malloy:

I am not a doctor, but some recommendations based on my personal experiences (outside of meds):

Do you drink coffee? If yes, stop

Do you eat a lot of sugar or salty foods? If yes, stop

Do you exercise daily? If no, start exercising

Do you eat vegetables and fruits regularly? If not, start eating them

Do you eat late at night (e.g. after 8:30/9pm)? If yes, stop

Do you do things outdoors, and see green plants, trees, and grass? If no, do more things outdoors

Do you play an instrument? If no, try to learn one. Even if just beating a drum

Posted: **Mon June 05, 2023 7:40 pm**

and when the panic attacks come, breathe deep in through the nose, out through the mouth

and rotating your palms to the sky

Posted: **Mon June 05, 2023 8:33 pm**

After my panic attack years ago, and struggles with anxiety in general around that time, a tool that finally helped me manage my anxiety was a 1-10 scale. The 10 would be the worst you’ve ever felt - in my case the panic attack I’d had - and I found comparing any current anxiousness on that scale would often come in around a 3 or 4, maybe even a 6… but it immediately helped me put my current state into an overall context, and gave me the perspective needed to help me realize it was all in my head. I’d calm down immediately. Might not work for you Malloy, but always good to have different tools to work with.

Posted: **Mon June 05, 2023 11:57 pm**

wease wrote:Something’s rattling around inside it when I move the unit around and I discover the power button seems to be gone and there’s a hole where it’s supposed to be. So I stick a screwdriver in there and press something and it actually powers on. Ok.

This sounds a little dangerous my man.

Posted: **Tue June 06, 2023 1:24 am**

ill add to the suggestion malloy

back in 2020 i had afib, aflutter and high blood pressure. put me in the hospital overnight and got put on meds. it took a solid 9 months, 2 cardioversions and a ablation before it got under control. my heart rate when not on meds was sometimes as high as 170 bpm. this lead to me having anxiety which you guessed it, shot my heart rate up.

now was it the aflutter or anxiety. twice went to the hospital via ambulance because i was so high strung. i used an app called head space that had specific programs for anxiety that you could listen to. a soft voice giving you instructions on looking for something green. something made of fabric and other specific items just to get your mind thinking of other things than your anxiety.

i have also used a cold washcloth on the back of my neck. i still take anxiety meds but more for a habit than needing them and i still get a mild case of anxiety from time to time thinking im going to die in front of coworkers or on my way home but i quickly think of other things to battle it.

before all this i had mild anxiety and found cbd oil really helped.

i hope you find something that helps you and gives you peace of mind

Posted: **Tue June 06, 2023 6:11 am**

I resent the idea you could play an instrument OR the drums

Posted: **Tue June 06, 2023 5:04 pm**

malloy, I have been there.

What helped me (I was having panic attacks, thinking I needed to go the hospital, etc) is getting off a bunch of my meds (I only take prozac now). That, plus exercise and a new job did wonders for me.

Finally, if you are having an anxiety or panic attack, someone once told me to pinch your inner thigh really hard. I guess the marines are trained to do that in stressful situations. I actually think it works a bit; the pain takes your mind off things. Just go gentle.

Posted: **Tue June 06, 2023 8:47 pm**

My tummy aches a little bit. Too many carbs I suspect.

Posted: **Tue June 06, 2023 9:04 pm**

96583UP wrote:still waiting for my ride cymbal to arrive but set my djembe and bongos near the rest of the kit and had a banger of a drum sesh today

mediocre weather, although ripped 2 bike rides, one into 20 mph winds, but otherwise just bashed it up including punky reggae style

might need to grab a few more cymbals after seeing the PJ snippet of jack drumming for yield looks like he's got 4-5 decent sized ones in there (and they dared criticize Dave A!)

nice to play

i like to play

Spoiler: show

my ride cymbal arrived

but there is a space that demands a third (non-hi hat) cymbal

i must ponder this

Posted: **Tue June 06, 2023 9:05 pm**

Bammer wrote:I resent the idea you could play an instrument OR the drums

a
drum

Posted: **Tue June 06, 2023 9:05 pm**

did you ever notice how expensive a steelpan drum is? let alone a couple

i need to ponder this

Posted: **Tue June 06, 2023 11:04 pm**

Completely absurd how expensive drums are in general

Posted: **Tue June 06, 2023 11:18 pm**

i agree

i bought a set 20 years ago from some guy and just 1 of the cymbals alone (lent to a friend 10 years ago) is now worth what i paid for the entire set

Posted: **Wed June 07, 2023 2:32 pm**

our building has peregrine falcons nesting on one of the upper floors. every so often i'll see a shadow of one of them dive bombing (they move very, very fast). this morning one landed on an outcrop on the corner of my floor outside my office, and we had a staring contest. he/she won. (they're smaller than I imagined).

Posted: **Wed June 07, 2023 2:50 pm**

Carl Sandburg wrote:There is a wolf in me . . . fangs pointed for tearing gashes . . . a red tongue for raw meat . . . and the hot lapping of blood—I keep this wolf because the wilderness gave it to me and the wilderness will not let it go.

There is a fox in me . . . a silver-gray fox . . . I sniff and guess . . . I pick things out of the wind and air . . . I nose in the dark night and take sleepers and eat them and hide the feathers . . . I circle and loop and double-cross.

There is a hog in me . . . a snout and a belly . . . a machinery for eating and grunting . . . a machinery for sleeping satisfied in the sun—I got this too from the wilderness and the wilderness will not let it go.

There is a fish in me . . . I know I came from salt-blue water-gates . . . I scurried with shoals of herring . . . I blew waterspouts with porpoises . . . before land was . . . before the water went down . . . before Noah . . . before the first chapter of Genesis.

There is a baboon in me . . . clambering-clawed . . . dog-faced . . . yawping a galoot's hunger . . . hairy under the armpits . . . here are the hawk-eyed hankering men . . . here are the blonde and blue-eyed women . . . here they hide curled asleep waiting . . . ready to snarl and kill . . . ready to sing and give milk . . . waiting—I keep the baboon because the wilderness says so.

There is an eagle in me and a mockingbird . . . and the eagle flies among the Rocky Mountains of my dreams and fights among the Sierra crags of what I want . . . and the mockingbird warbles in the early forenoon before the dew is gone, warbles in the underbrush of my Chattanoogas of hope, gushes over the blue Ozark foothills of my wishes—And I got the eagle and the mockingbird from the wilderness.

O, I got a zoo, I got a menagerie, inside my ribs, under my bony head, under my red-valve heart—and I got something else: it is a man-child heart, a woman-child heart: it is a father and mother and lover: it came from God-Knows-Where: it is going to God-Knows-Where—For I am the keeper of the zoo: I say yes and no: I sing and kill and work: I am a pal of the world: I came from the wilderness.

Posted: **Wed June 07, 2023 3:16 pm**

BurtReynolds wrote:My tummy aches a little bit. Too many carbs I suspect.

Stick your finger down your throat to throw up and take a water pill, you will be good to go!

Posted: **Wed June 07, 2023 3:17 pm**

My GF earns her associates degree next month, so I am helping her build a LinkedIn profile today to find work!

Posted: **Wed June 07, 2023 3:36 pm**

Coach wrote:
BurtReynolds wrote:My tummy aches a little bit. Too many carbs I suspect.
Stick your finger down your throat to throw up and take a water pill, you will be good to go!

Do not take this advice.

Posted: **Wed June 07, 2023 5:04 pm**

Higgs wrote:
Coach wrote:
BurtReynolds wrote:My tummy aches a little bit. Too many carbs I suspect.
Stick your finger down your throat to throw up and take a water pill, you will be good to go!
Do not take this advice.

Or, turn up the heat in the gym, wear a plastic garbage bag and work out for hours. Sweat it off!

Posted: **Wed June 07, 2023 5:04 pm**

Come to Weight Loss thread.

We can help.

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