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Re: Are you not going to watch the Oscars this year?

Posted: Mon March 28, 2022 8:11 pm
by Ms Harmless
spike wrote:
washing machine wrote:
tree_ wrote:
warehouse wrote:tree pretending the joke was a compliment is the best part of this whole thing.
I am more and more unable to see how it wasn't a compliment, the more times I see it.
fucking tree :haha:
it certainly wasn't an insult (assuming rock didn't know about the alopecia).
news is increasingly that he did and made the joke anyway

Re: Are you not going to watch the Oscars this year?

Posted: Mon March 28, 2022 8:12 pm
by Mickey
I would like to meet someone who has taken a position that doesn't make sense to them. I bet that would really be something.

Re: Are you not going to watch the Oscars this year?

Posted: Mon March 28, 2022 8:12 pm
by spike
Mickey wrote:I would like to meet someone who has taken a position that doesn't make sense to them. I bet that would really be something.
the bammer account

Re: Are you not going to watch the Oscars this year?

Posted: Mon March 28, 2022 8:12 pm
by tree_
Ms Harmless wrote:
tree_ wrote:
Ms Harmless wrote:
tree_ wrote:
Ms Harmless wrote:either I'm minimising the power of a smack on the cheek, or others are minimising the power of a "harmless" joke

I've taken a position that makes sense to me and been dragged for it, it's fine, but even if you think the joke wasn't harmful, I can't for the life of me imagine how you've walked away from this thinking Chris fucking Rock is irreparably damaged
If you don't want to explain why you have your opinion or how you got there, that's fine, but it will continue to make zero sense.
I don't need it to make sense to you; this isn't the first conversation in which you've concluded that I'm a monster raving looney and it won't be the last
It can't possibly make sense to anyone. It's just.. "I feel this way because I feel this way"
it makes sense to me

and Jesus, Tree, your entire account is built around "I feel this way because I feel this way"

but I dare to match you in that and I'm completely irrational
No.. I actually go to great lengths to explain my positions and how I got there. And given that you've asked so much from me and I've provided, time after time, it only seems fair that you return the favor.

Re: Are you not going to watch the Oscars this year?

Posted: Mon March 28, 2022 8:13 pm
by Mickey
spike wrote:
Mickey wrote:I would like to meet someone who has taken a position that doesn't make sense to them. I bet that would really be something.
the bammer account
The Bammer account is really something.

Re: Are you not going to watch the Oscars this year?

Posted: Mon March 28, 2022 8:14 pm
by Ms Harmless
tree_ wrote:
Ms Harmless wrote:
tree_ wrote:
Ms Harmless wrote:
tree_ wrote:
Ms Harmless wrote:either I'm minimising the power of a smack on the cheek, or others are minimising the power of a "harmless" joke

I've taken a position that makes sense to me and been dragged for it, it's fine, but even if you think the joke wasn't harmful, I can't for the life of me imagine how you've walked away from this thinking Chris fucking Rock is irreparably damaged
If you don't want to explain why you have your opinion or how you got there, that's fine, but it will continue to make zero sense.
I don't need it to make sense to you; this isn't the first conversation in which you've concluded that I'm a monster raving looney and it won't be the last
It can't possibly make sense to anyone. It's just.. "I feel this way because I feel this way"
it makes sense to me

and Jesus, Tree, your entire account is built around "I feel this way because I feel this way"

but I dare to match you in that and I'm completely irrational
No.. I actually go to great lengths to explain my positions and how I got there. And given that you've asked so much from me and I've provided, time after time, it only seems fair that you return the favor.
you think I've ever requested your bullshit?

Re: Are you not going to watch the Oscars this year?

Posted: Mon March 28, 2022 8:14 pm
by tree_
Ms Harmless wrote:
tree_ wrote:
Ms Harmless wrote:
tree_ wrote:
Ms Harmless wrote:
tree_ wrote:
Ms Harmless wrote:either I'm minimising the power of a smack on the cheek, or others are minimising the power of a "harmless" joke

I've taken a position that makes sense to me and been dragged for it, it's fine, but even if you think the joke wasn't harmful, I can't for the life of me imagine how you've walked away from this thinking Chris fucking Rock is irreparably damaged
If you don't want to explain why you have your opinion or how you got there, that's fine, but it will continue to make zero sense.
I don't need it to make sense to you; this isn't the first conversation in which you've concluded that I'm a monster raving looney and it won't be the last
It can't possibly make sense to anyone. It's just.. "I feel this way because I feel this way"
it makes sense to me

and Jesus, Tree, your entire account is built around "I feel this way because I feel this way"

but I dare to match you in that and I'm completely irrational
No.. I actually go to great lengths to explain my positions and how I got there. And given that you've asked so much from me and I've provided, time after time, it only seems fair that you return the favor.
you think I've ever requested your bullshit?
Yes.

Re: Are you not going to watch the Oscars this year?

Posted: Mon March 28, 2022 8:15 pm
by Mickey
:haha:

Re: Are you not going to watch the Oscars this year?

Posted: Mon March 28, 2022 8:15 pm
by bart
Can someone sum the arguments up for those of us who don’t RM at work? Is someone arguing it’s ok to slap people in public? As much as I love the fact that we have a good old fashioned 15 pages in a day RM thread, I’m not reading that whole thing.

Re: Are you not going to watch the Oscars this year?

Posted: Mon March 28, 2022 8:15 pm
by Ms Harmless
tree_ wrote:
Ms Harmless wrote:
tree_ wrote:
Ms Harmless wrote:
tree_ wrote:
Ms Harmless wrote:
tree_ wrote:
Ms Harmless wrote:either I'm minimising the power of a smack on the cheek, or others are minimising the power of a "harmless" joke

I've taken a position that makes sense to me and been dragged for it, it's fine, but even if you think the joke wasn't harmful, I can't for the life of me imagine how you've walked away from this thinking Chris fucking Rock is irreparably damaged
If you don't want to explain why you have your opinion or how you got there, that's fine, but it will continue to make zero sense.
I don't need it to make sense to you; this isn't the first conversation in which you've concluded that I'm a monster raving looney and it won't be the last
It can't possibly make sense to anyone. It's just.. "I feel this way because I feel this way"
it makes sense to me

and Jesus, Tree, your entire account is built around "I feel this way because I feel this way"

but I dare to match you in that and I'm completely irrational
No.. I actually go to great lengths to explain my positions and how I got there. And given that you've asked so much from me and I've provided, time after time, it only seems fair that you return the favor.
you think I've ever requested your bullshit?
Yes.
delusional

but OK, can you stop regurgitating it now? that's a thing I'm only asking you to do once

Re: Are you not going to watch the Oscars this year?

Posted: Mon March 28, 2022 8:16 pm
by Mickey
Mickey wrote:This is going to be a good thread to watch.
Correct

Re: Are you not going to watch the Oscars this year?

Posted: Mon March 28, 2022 8:17 pm
by spike
bart wrote:Can someone sum the arguments up for those of us who don’t RM at work? Is someone arguing it’s ok to slap people in public? As much as I love the fact that we have a good old fashioned 15 pages in a day RM thread, I’m not reading that whole thing.
will do

Re: Are you not going to watch the Oscars this year?

Posted: Mon March 28, 2022 8:17 pm
by Ms Harmless
bart wrote:Can someone sum the arguments up for those of us who don’t RM at work? Is someone arguing it’s ok to slap people in public? As much as I love the fact that we have a good old fashioned 15 pages in a day RM thread, I’m not reading that whole thing.
I argued that the slap was pretty great actually and pissed tree off for the length of a short story probably

Re: Are you not going to watch the Oscars this year?

Posted: Mon March 28, 2022 8:18 pm
by tree_
Ms Harmless wrote:
tree_ wrote:
Ms Harmless wrote:
tree_ wrote:
Ms Harmless wrote:
tree_ wrote:
Ms Harmless wrote:
tree_ wrote:
Ms Harmless wrote:either I'm minimising the power of a smack on the cheek, or others are minimising the power of a "harmless" joke

I've taken a position that makes sense to me and been dragged for it, it's fine, but even if you think the joke wasn't harmful, I can't for the life of me imagine how you've walked away from this thinking Chris fucking Rock is irreparably damaged
If you don't want to explain why you have your opinion or how you got there, that's fine, but it will continue to make zero sense.
I don't need it to make sense to you; this isn't the first conversation in which you've concluded that I'm a monster raving looney and it won't be the last
It can't possibly make sense to anyone. It's just.. "I feel this way because I feel this way"
it makes sense to me

and Jesus, Tree, your entire account is built around "I feel this way because I feel this way"

but I dare to match you in that and I'm completely irrational
No.. I actually go to great lengths to explain my positions and how I got there. And given that you've asked so much from me and I've provided, time after time, it only seems fair that you return the favor.
you think I've ever requested your bullshit?
Yes.
delusional

but OK, can you stop regurgitating it now? that's a thing I'm only asking you to do once
I'm just going to go ahead and agree with your point that you are very irrational, which is what actually makes these back-and-forths so difficult, because I'm extremely rational and it frustrates me.

Re: Are you not going to watch the Oscars this year?

Posted: Mon March 28, 2022 8:19 pm
by Rob
I can't believe this is worthy of close to 30 pages.

I don't understand why race matters here.

Will Smith is an icon in our generation, but off screen has been a lunatic for quite some time. Chris Rock handled it as well as you can. I'm really not sure there's more to it than this.

Re: Are you not going to watch the Oscars this year?

Posted: Mon March 28, 2022 8:19 pm
by bart
Ms Harmless wrote:
bart wrote:Can someone sum the arguments up for those of us who don’t RM at work? Is someone arguing it’s ok to slap people in public? As much as I love the fact that we have a good old fashioned 15 pages in a day RM thread, I’m not reading that whole thing.
I argued that the slap was pretty great actually and pissed tree off for the length of a short story probably
Oh. Huh.

Re: Are you not going to watch the Oscars this year?

Posted: Mon March 28, 2022 8:20 pm
by washing machine
bart wrote:
Ms Harmless wrote:
bart wrote:Can someone sum the arguments up for those of us who don’t RM at work? Is someone arguing it’s ok to slap people in public? As much as I love the fact that we have a good old fashioned 15 pages in a day RM thread, I’m not reading that whole thing.
I argued that the slap was pretty great actually and pissed tree off for the length of a short story probably
Oh. Huh.
There's more to it than that. tree built a logic bridge to "Chris Rock was just calling her hot"landia and has been camping there ever since. The way he got there was peak tree. Worth the read.

Re: Are you not going to watch the Oscars this year?

Posted: Mon March 28, 2022 8:20 pm
by tree_
Ms Harmless wrote:
bart wrote:Can someone sum the arguments up for those of us who don’t RM at work? Is someone arguing it’s ok to slap people in public? As much as I love the fact that we have a good old fashioned 15 pages in a day RM thread, I’m not reading that whole thing.
I argued that the slap was pretty great actually and pissed tree off for the length of a short story probably
What actually frustrates me is your inability to explain your perspective while maintaining a standard for everyone else to explain theirs. I don't like blatant hypocrisy, in my Will Smiths or fellow RMers.

Re: Are you not going to watch the Oscars this year?

Posted: Mon March 28, 2022 8:20 pm
by Ms Harmless
Rob wrote:I can't believe this is worthy of close to 30 pages.

I don't understand why race matters here.

Will Smith is an icon in our generation, but off screen has been a lunatic for quite some time. Chris Rock handled it as well as you can. I'm really not sure there's more to it than this.
guess that settles it then, thanks

Re: Are you not going to watch the Oscars this year?

Posted: Mon March 28, 2022 8:21 pm
by Mickey
Rob wrote:I can't believe this is worthy of close to 30 pages.

I don't understand why race matters here.

Will Smith is an icon in our generation, but off screen has been a lunatic for quite some time. Chris Rock handled it as well as you can. I'm really not sure there's more to it than this.
I believe the point about race is that black women have historically been (and continue to be) scrutinized for their hair, especially for having "natural" hairstyles, which Rock as the host of a documentary about this very topic should have been more sensitive about before making a joke about JPS's hair, which is both natural and a choice she made as a result of a medical condition.