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Re: I’m not a bad person

Posted: Wed August 16, 2023 12:06 pm
by Peeps
tree_ wrote:
Peeps wrote:
tree_ wrote:Yeah 2 wrongs definitely make a right. You’ve changed my mind.

Plus we all know that by wishing something upon someone you increase the likelihood of that thing happening by 12.67 percent. But because they both wished something horrible upon eachother it brings it back down to zero. Alls well that ends well.

you are such a fool
And you’re bald! There now we are evens stephens

i can let my hair grow back you cannot shave off your foolishness

let me explain this for you. you nor anyone else has any right to judge what someone finds offensive. mickey could have let the comment slide (also note there has been no denial that this was said, just continuing to try to be the victim) but given what mickey and mrs mickey has been through it wasnt going to slide. mickey lashed out just like what most people would do (board or irl) and regardless of whether i think it was justified or you think it was unjustified is inconsequential. mickey said what he said and has owned up to it and i am sure gives 0 fucks if anyone agrees or disagrees with the level of hate that felt when saying it.

to say he is a bad person while totally exonerating the initial comment as well he should have just ignored it shows what a true jackass you are

Re: I’m not a bad person

Posted: Wed August 16, 2023 12:19 pm
by tommy
to say he is a bad person while totally exonerating the initial comment as well he should have just ignored it shows what a true jackass you are
I don't think tree said this anywhere.

Either way, what Macphisto said was disgusting and he should probably seek therapy.

Re: I’m not a bad person

Posted: Wed August 16, 2023 12:22 pm
by tree_
Peeps wrote:
tree_ wrote:
Peeps wrote:
tree_ wrote:Yeah 2 wrongs definitely make a right. You’ve changed my mind.

Plus we all know that by wishing something upon someone you increase the likelihood of that thing happening by 12.67 percent. But because they both wished something horrible upon eachother it brings it back down to zero. Alls well that ends well.

you are such a fool
And you’re bald! There now we are evens stephens

i can let my hair grow back you cannot shave off your foolishness

let me explain this for you. you nor anyone else has any right to judge what someone finds offensive. mickey could have let the comment slide (also note there has been no denial that this was said, just continuing to try to be the victim) but given what mickey and mrs mickey has been through it wasnt going to slide. mickey lashed out just like what most people would do (board or irl) and regardless of whether i think it was justified or you think it was unjustified is inconsequential. mickey said what he said and has owned up to it and i am sure gives 0 fucks if anyone agrees or disagrees with the level of hate that felt when saying it.

to say he is a bad person while totally exonerating the initial comment as well he should have just ignored it shows what a true jackass you are
Wow thank you for attempting to educate a hopelessly foolish person while simultaneously proving yourself to be a superior ethical and morally righteous person.

Haha when did I ever even say what phatj said was ok? Also let’s not forget mickeys track record of talking shite. Who knows what he said to set him off? Probably something offensive to him. Have you considered that?

Re: I’m not a bad person

Posted: Wed August 16, 2023 12:25 pm
by tommy
Mickey can definitely be a prick and has been to many RMers, but only one of them ever wished a stillbirth on him. That takes a special kind of dipshit.

Re: I’m not a bad person

Posted: Wed August 16, 2023 12:26 pm
by tree_
They’re both wrong. Final answer.

Re: I’m not a bad person

Posted: Wed August 16, 2023 12:30 pm
by tommy
Mickey at least had the courage to post his hateful comment in public rather than sending it as a PM like a coward.

Re: I’m not a bad person

Posted: Wed August 16, 2023 12:33 pm
by tree_
tommy wrote:Mickey at least had the courage to post his hateful comment in public rather than sending it as a PM like a coward.
One could justifiably argue it’s less offensive if it’s private

Re: I’m not a bad person

Posted: Wed August 16, 2023 12:36 pm
by tommy
tree_ wrote:
tommy wrote:Mickey at least had the courage to post his hateful comment in public rather than sending it as a PM like a coward.
One could justifiably argue it’s less offensive if it’s private
We should own our actions. If you aren't comfortable with everyone knowing what you say/do then you shouldn't be saying/doing it.

Re: I’m not a bad person

Posted: Wed August 16, 2023 12:37 pm
by Ello Sailor
tommy wrote:
to say he is a bad person while totally exonerating the initial comment as well he should have just ignored it shows what a true jackass you are
I don't think tree said this anywhere.

Either way, what Macphisto said was disgusting and he should probably seek therapy.
Tommy flip-flopping all over the place. Pick a side, bruv.

Re: I’m not a bad person

Posted: Wed August 16, 2023 12:39 pm
by tree_
tommy wrote:
tree_ wrote:
tommy wrote:Mickey at least had the courage to post his hateful comment in public rather than sending it as a PM like a coward.
One could justifiably argue it’s less offensive if it’s private
We should own our actions. If you aren't comfortable with everyone knowing what you say/do then you shouldn't be saying/doing it.
You and I have said things privately that we wouldn’t say publicly on the board not because we had bad intentions behind them but because they could be interpreted wrongly

Re: I’m not a bad person

Posted: Wed August 16, 2023 12:39 pm
by Peeps
tommy wrote:
to say he is a bad person while totally exonerating the initial comment as well he should have just ignored it shows what a true jackass you are
I don't think tree said this anywhere.

Either way, what Macphisto said was disgusting and he should probably seek therapy.

here are his posts in order
tree_ wrote:I have mercy and compassion on him for he is suffering. Nobody chooses to be sad. I hope he gets better soon. We had good friendly moments too.
to me this reads well, he deserves compassion because he had a bad day
tree_ wrote:yes we all know how sensitive mickey is

thank lorde he's ok
this reads as fuck mickey whatever is said to him he deserves

tree_ wrote:I'm actually implying mickey has often shown himself to be of the callous sort, by, you know, telling people they should kill themselves and such. But yeah, I'm not saying he doesn't deserve support. But I think PhatJ deserves support too.
mickey is a dick and thus what is said to him is just


again, to me this seems like he is exonerating what macphisto said and attributing it to him having a bad day and well mickey is a dick and deserves what is said to him

Re: I’m not a bad person

Posted: Wed August 16, 2023 12:40 pm
by tommy
Ello Sailor wrote:
tommy wrote:
to say he is a bad person while totally exonerating the initial comment as well he should have just ignored it shows what a true jackass you are
I don't think tree said this anywhere.

Either way, what Macphisto said was disgusting and he should probably seek therapy.
Tommy flip-flopping all over the place. Pick a side, bruv.
One post was pre-stillbirth revelation, one was after

Re: I’m not a bad person

Posted: Wed August 16, 2023 12:42 pm
by tree_
Peeps wrote:
tommy wrote:
to say he is a bad person while totally exonerating the initial comment as well he should have just ignored it shows what a true jackass you are
I don't think tree said this anywhere.

Either way, what Macphisto said was disgusting and he should probably seek therapy.

here are his posts in order
tree_ wrote:I have mercy and compassion on him for he is suffering. Nobody chooses to be sad. I hope he gets better soon. We had good friendly moments too.
to me this reads well, he deserves compassion because he had a bad day
tree_ wrote:yes we all know how sensitive mickey is

thank lorde he's ok
this reads as fuck mickey whatever is said to him he deserves

tree_ wrote:I'm actually implying mickey has often shown himself to be of the callous sort, by, you know, telling people they should kill themselves and such. But yeah, I'm not saying he doesn't deserve support. But I think PhatJ deserves support too.
mickey is a dick and thus what is said to him is just


again, to me this seems like he is exonerating what macphisto said and attributing it to him having a bad day and well mickey is a dick and deserves what is said to him
If one deserves compassion so does the other. They’re both wrong and they both deserve forgiveness—that is my stance

Re: I’m not a bad person

Posted: Wed August 16, 2023 12:44 pm
by tommy
tree_ wrote:
tommy wrote:
tree_ wrote:
tommy wrote:Mickey at least had the courage to post his hateful comment in public rather than sending it as a PM like a coward.
One could justifiably argue it’s less offensive if it’s private
We should own our actions. If you aren't comfortable with everyone knowing what you say/do then you shouldn't be saying/doing it.
You and I have said things privately that we wouldn’t say publicly on the board not because we had bad intentions behind them but because they could be interpreted wrongly
No, I'm just a coward sometimes

Re: I’m not a bad person

Posted: Wed August 16, 2023 12:44 pm
by tommy
tree_ wrote:
Peeps wrote:
tommy wrote:
to say he is a bad person while totally exonerating the initial comment as well he should have just ignored it shows what a true jackass you are
I don't think tree said this anywhere.

Either way, what Macphisto said was disgusting and he should probably seek therapy.

here are his posts in order
tree_ wrote:I have mercy and compassion on him for he is suffering. Nobody chooses to be sad. I hope he gets better soon. We had good friendly moments too.
to me this reads well, he deserves compassion because he had a bad day
tree_ wrote:yes we all know how sensitive mickey is

thank lorde he's ok
this reads as fuck mickey whatever is said to him he deserves

tree_ wrote:I'm actually implying mickey has often shown himself to be of the callous sort, by, you know, telling people they should kill themselves and such. But yeah, I'm not saying he doesn't deserve support. But I think PhatJ deserves support too.
mickey is a dick and thus what is said to him is just


again, to me this seems like he is exonerating what macphisto said and attributing it to him having a bad day and well mickey is a dick and deserves what is said to him
If one deserves compassion so does the other. They’re both wrong and they both deserve forgiveness—that is my stance
Wow, tree is a lot like Jesus sometimes

Re: I’m not a bad person

Posted: Wed August 16, 2023 12:49 pm
by Ello Sailor
Judge Tommy Sheindlin spittin'

Re: I’m not a bad person

Posted: Wed August 16, 2023 3:25 pm
by wease
MacPHATJ crossed the line when he sent those PMs to some of us along with what he said to Mickey. Mick was totally within bounds with his response. Nothing any of us said or did called for what he did and he showed just what a POS he really is by doing that.

Re: I’m not a bad person

Posted: Wed August 16, 2023 3:35 pm
by tree_
If it is so that people are offended by different things, and it is within their rights to be offended, then it is reasonable to assume he was justifiably (in his mind) acting out and attacking specific people because of what he interpreted as attacks toward him. Even if you might not understand or agree with his motives, he was in fact motivated to do so. He did not send me nasty messages, probably because we never butted heads, for example. It is helpful to have compassion and understanding, particularly for your enemies, so as to avoid further unnecessary harm. Yes, imprison people from society and ban them from message boards who have shown a penchant for committing harmful acts, but it's for their own good and society's; it is not necessary to rub salt in their wounds. Perhaps if we took a different approach and talked to him like a friend, he will learn to behave like a friend to us also.

Re: I’m not a bad person

Posted: Wed August 16, 2023 3:36 pm
by wease
tree_ wrote:If it is so that people are offended by different things, and it is within their rights to be offended, then it is reasonable to assume he was justifiably (in his mind) acting out and attacking specific people because of what he interpreted as attacks toward him. Even if you might not understand or agree with his motives, he was in fact motivated to do so. He did not send me nasty messages, probably because we never butted heads, for example. It is helpful to have compassion and understanding, particularly for your enemies, so as to avoid further unnecessary harm. Yes, imprison from society and ban people from message boards who have shown a penchant for committing harmful acts, but it's for their own good and society's; it is not necessary to rub salt in their wounds. Perhaps if we took a different approach and talked to him like a friend, he will learn to behave like a friend to us also.
They same way you had compassion and understanding for the guy you had gotten fired?

Re: I’m not a bad person

Posted: Wed August 16, 2023 3:37 pm
by dad
he seems to continue with the same patterns, though.

how many times are you willing to go to the compassion well for him before you decided it's a lost cause here?