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Re: General Pearl Jam Bitching
Posted: Sun July 14, 2013 1:29 pm
by stip
Kevin Davis wrote:stip wrote:Birds in Hell wrote:Unless there's something that's gone unreported so far about his departure from the band, I do think they appear to have treated him quite poorly.
i agree.
You're just looking for reasons to keep your streak alive.
i agree.
Re: General Pearl Jam Bitching
Posted: Sun July 14, 2013 4:08 pm
by Mine
harmless wrote:theplatypus wrote:harmless wrote:Dave A. was a major factor in keeping PJ famous and I mean that with every fibre of my being. By and large, the general public gave up shortly after Jack joined (Yield).
I imagine that had to do more with the songs than the drummer. I don't think a lot of people went "so I heard Pearl Jam fired their drummer... welp, I'm out". I think that came when people heard "Who You Are" on the radio and it sounded like a completely different band. Of course, "Who You Are" was greatly influenced by the new drummer, but what I mean is that the drop in popularity was in response to the material and not the personnel change. After all, Dave didn't even play in the band's highest-selling album.
The public might not have acknowledged that their sheer insane fandom and excitement about an aggressive band (most of the time) who inspired crowd surfing and sweat at gigs etc. was due to Dave A, but every ounce of that sound began to disappear as soon as he left.
My impression is that they started loosing fans with Vs.
Vs. sold a lot on what people expected it to be judging by 10. By Vitalogy they knew that band wasn't coming back and if they did have any hope left No Code got rid of that. I think that if they stuck with 10 or Vs. they would be reduced to a 3rd grade has been nostalgia act.
Pearl Jam's initial success was a mater of popularity. A huge part of records they sold with 10 and Vs was to people who bought them because up to 1994 they were the band you were supposed to be in.
It's silly to assume and people on this board often do that most of fans who were into PJ because of 10 have much in common with people who post regularly here in the sense that most posters here have an above average interest in music and are very articulate about different aspects of it.
Re: General Pearl Jam Bitching
Posted: Sun July 14, 2013 5:01 pm
by Strat
The general publics fandom was in line with the grunge music culture fad, not Dave's drumming. By the time no code came out the public was onto the next music fad. Backstreet boys, spice girls and limp Bizkit.
Re: General Pearl Jam Bitching
Posted: Sun July 14, 2013 5:03 pm
by dimejinky99
I always hated daves hair. And his far too big soul patch.
Plus his general happy demeanour really didn't sit with my view of the band. Or theirs evidently:)
Re: General Pearl Jam Bitching
Posted: Sun July 14, 2013 5:05 pm
by harmless
dimejinky99 wrote:I always hated daves hair. And his far too big soul patch.
Plus his general happy demeanour really didn't sit with my view of the band. Or theirs evidently:)
But you're fine with all of them having a generally happy and dorkish demeanour now?
Re: General Pearl Jam Bitching
Posted: Sun July 14, 2013 5:05 pm
by dimejinky99
Yeah. I got older too. What can ye do?
Re: General Pearl Jam Bitching
Posted: Sun July 14, 2013 5:10 pm
by harmless
dimejinky99 wrote:Yeah. I got older too. What can ye do?

Re: General Pearl Jam Bitching
Posted: Sun July 14, 2013 5:12 pm
by harmless
I also liked Pearl Jam, even when I was a kid, because they weren't nihilistic. I'm not sure if they were all 'happy', but none of them were Kurt Cobain. Pearl Jam's music was never hugely dark, and if it was, always with a sense of humour. And they always seemed really pleasant dudes in interview. Or rather, that was my impression. Ed was often smiling, smirking or laughing and doing that pouty thing with his lips.
Re: General Pearl Jam Bitching
Posted: Sun July 14, 2013 5:12 pm
by dimejinky99
I really like that they're dorky. And they really are. We all have our interests but its cool and I'm jealous that they're rich and get to indulge in theirs.
(Batman firepole anyone?)

Re: General Pearl Jam Bitching
Posted: Sun July 14, 2013 5:14 pm
by dimejinky99
harmless wrote:I also liked Pearl Jam, even when I was a kid, because they weren't nihilistic. I'm not sure if they were all 'happy', but none of them were Kurt Cobain. Pearl Jam's music was never hugely dark, and if it was, always with a sense of humour. And they always seemed really pleasant dudes in interview. Or rather, that was my impression. Ed was often smiling, smirking or laughing and doing that pouty thing with his lips.
Happy!? Nirvana? I never got that. Kurt seemed sort of snide about everything.
I'm no expert though.
Re: General Pearl Jam Bitching
Posted: Sun July 14, 2013 5:15 pm
by harmless
dimejinky99 wrote:harmless wrote:I also liked Pearl Jam, even when I was a kid, because they weren't nihilistic. I'm not sure if they were all 'happy', but none of them were Kurt Cobain. Pearl Jam's music was never hugely dark, and if it was, always with a sense of humour. And they always seemed really pleasant dudes in interview. Or rather, that was my impression. Ed was often smiling, smirking or laughing and doing that pouty thing with his lips.
Happy!? Nirvana? I never got that. Kurt seemed sort of snide about everything.
I'm no expert though.
Read it again, I said the opposite. 'None of them were Kurt Cobain.'
Re: General Pearl Jam Bitching
Posted: Sun July 14, 2013 5:27 pm
by Mine
dimejinky99 wrote:harmless wrote:I also liked Pearl Jam, even when I was a kid, because they weren't nihilistic. I'm not sure if they were all 'happy', but none of them were Kurt Cobain. Pearl Jam's music was never hugely dark, and if it was, always with a sense of humour. And they always seemed really pleasant dudes in interview. Or rather, that was my impression. Ed was often smiling, smirking or laughing and doing that pouty thing with his lips.
Happy!? Nirvana? I never got that. Kurt seemed sort of snide about everything.
I'm no expert though.
I can't get past the feeling of him whining his way trough every song and i can't stand whining/moaning and cry baby singers.
Re: General Pearl Jam Bitching
Posted: Sun July 14, 2013 5:28 pm
by harmless
Mine wrote:dimejinky99 wrote:harmless wrote:I also liked Pearl Jam, even when I was a kid, because they weren't nihilistic. I'm not sure if they were all 'happy', but none of them were Kurt Cobain. Pearl Jam's music was never hugely dark, and if it was, always with a sense of humour. And they always seemed really pleasant dudes in interview. Or rather, that was my impression. Ed was often smiling, smirking or laughing and doing that pouty thing with his lips.
Happy!? Nirvana? I never got that. Kurt seemed sort of snide about everything.
I'm no expert though.
I can't get past the feeling of him whining his way trough every song and i can't stand whining/moaning and cry baby singers.
He suffered major depression, he wasn't whining. We're not talking trademark emo.
Re: General Pearl Jam Bitching
Posted: Sun July 14, 2013 5:29 pm
by dimejinky99
Mine wrote:dimejinky99 wrote:harmless wrote:I also liked Pearl Jam, even when I was a kid, because they weren't nihilistic. I'm not sure if they were all 'happy', but none of them were Kurt Cobain. Pearl Jam's music was never hugely dark, and if it was, always with a sense of humour. And they always seemed really pleasant dudes in interview. Or rather, that was my impression. Ed was often smiling, smirking or laughing and doing that pouty thing with his lips.
Happy!? Nirvana? I never got that. Kurt seemed sort of snide about everything.
I'm no expert though.
I can't get past the feeling of him whining his way trough every song and i can't stand whining/moaning and cry baby singers.
I think that's why he felt threatened by ed and manifested it in a dislike of pj.
'Ive had a shittier time than him! How dare he write more eloquently about it!'
That's the impression I got at the time anyways.
Re: General Pearl Jam Bitching
Posted: Sun July 14, 2013 5:46 pm
by stip
at the time it was very important to take sides. I loved both bands, but you had to line up behind one of them.
Obviously this is impossibly stupid in retrospect
Re: General Pearl Jam Bitching
Posted: Sun July 14, 2013 6:01 pm
by Strat
stip wrote:at the time it was very important to take sides. I loved both bands, but you had to line up behind one of them.
Obviously this is impossibly stupid in retrospect
But not when you are a misguided 8th grader full or hormones and emotional rage towards your parents for not having the pool heated in time for a saturday afternoon neighborhood party!
Re: General Pearl Jam Bitching
Posted: Sun July 14, 2013 6:10 pm
by Dr. Van Nostrand
I was a fan of both bands but nirvana a good bit less, i don't think there were ever a top 5 band for me, but i also don't really remember people picking sides
Re: General Pearl Jam Bitching
Posted: Sun July 14, 2013 6:22 pm
by Mine
harmless wrote:Mine wrote:dimejinky99 wrote:harmless wrote:I also liked Pearl Jam, even when I was a kid, because they weren't nihilistic. I'm not sure if they were all 'happy', but none of them were Kurt Cobain. Pearl Jam's music was never hugely dark, and if it was, always with a sense of humour. And they always seemed really pleasant dudes in interview. Or rather, that was my impression. Ed was often smiling, smirking or laughing and doing that pouty thing with his lips.
Happy!? Nirvana? I never got that. Kurt seemed sort of snide about everything.
I'm no expert though.
I can't get past the feeling of him whining his way trough every song and i can't stand whining/moaning and cry baby singers.
He suffered major depression, he wasn't whining. We're not talking trademark emo.
I know but he emphasized that a lot or used it as a shield in his approach as a singer. I give him his merits though even if I've never been a fan. He was basically a genre of his own.
Re: General Pearl Jam Bitching
Posted: Sun July 14, 2013 6:22 pm
by Mine
Strat wrote:stip wrote:at the time it was very important to take sides. I loved both bands, but you had to line up behind one of them.
Obviously this is impossibly stupid in retrospect
But not when you are a misguided 8th grader full or hormones and emotional rage towards your parents for not having the pool heated in time for a saturday afternoon neighborhood party!

Re: General Pearl Jam Bitching
Posted: Sun July 14, 2013 6:36 pm
by dimejinky99
I relate totally to Stips point about having to pick sides at the time.
When the news broke of Kurts death, nirvana fans here gathered in the Phoenix park and burned pearl jam t shirts, chanting 'why couldn't it had been vedder'
I'm not kidding.