Red Mosquito

Fire your current dad and hire rimmer dad to be your dad. He's really good at that sort of thing.

wease wrote:

E.H. Ruddock wrote:

spike wrote:

E.H. Ruddock wrote:

wease wrote:So Niece-mom texted Mrs Wease this morning and said she found a lawyer now all she has to do is pay them their fee…

I told Mrs Wease that if I spend any money at all it would be to do everything I can to ensure neither of them ever had custody of him ever again. We’re certainly not going to pay a lawyer on behalf of her.

From a legal standpoint, wouldn't it be better (for you and Mrs. Wease) to convince your niece to just let you adopt her and have full custody? It would be easier from a standpoint of the court letting you have her. Now you would have to get her permission as well as the presumptive father's (which sounds like it could also be waived with a DNA test), but it might be worth a shot to convince her of that.

I could see Niece Mom not wanting to go that far. Too permanent, she probably thinks she can get clean and be a good mom one day.

Yeah, I get that. But maybe this is the leverage Wease uses if she really wants that kid away from who she is with. Tough situation for sure. Sorry wease.

Spike is correct. This kid is her ultimate trophy. She got purposefully got pregnant at 14 so she would be able to have a baby pretty much just so she could go around saying “look, I have a baby!” There is no way in hell she would ever consider permanently relinquishing her parental right. No way no how.

What we can’t know is how serious she is about getting clean and staying that way to be a good mother. Honestly I don’t see her doing anything that will stick. She’s only 19 and her only plan for life is where the next good time is coming from.

And if I’m being completely honest my lack of belief in her probably comes from the fact we tried to get her out of the lifestyle only to be rebuffed.

UPDATE—-

Niece-mom texts Mrs Wease out of the blue last night. First time since this last round at the end of Oct. Basically saying that she is now trying to get custody back so that she can relinquish custody to her own mom who is a methhead former jailbird.

Cut to today, she asks Mrs Wease if we would consider taking him if there was and “emergency removal” from the dad? I guess she and her mom a scheming and trying to pull something off to get home removed from dad. Dad doesn’t even want him but has to keep him pretty much because the state placed him there. Even tho we have no desire to have another kid, we would take him in a heartbeat if we didn’t have all this redneck, trailer trash, absolute bullshit to have to deal with. Why the fuck would we take him with the end goal being someone who isn’t fit to raise any children period to gain custody of him? But how can we turn away being the only possible good influence this kid is ever gonna have? This is so maddening.

Oh say, can you see
By the dawn's early light
What so proudly we hailed
At the twilight's last gleaming?
Whose broad stripes and bright stars
Through the perilous fight
O'er the ramparts we watched
Were so gallantly, yeah, streaming?
And the rockets' red glare
The bombs bursting in air
Gave proof through the night
That our flag was still there
O say, does that star-spangled banner yet wave
O'er the land of the free and the home of the brave

E.H. Ruddock wrote:

bodysnatcher wrote:

doug rr wrote:

bodysnatcher wrote:

doug rr wrote:2 good friends coming over later this afternoon to stay until Sunday...not much planned other than eat and drink...making a dutch oven full of short ribs for tonight

Range balls and a 6 pack

the guy in the group of 2 is a pga teaching pro..if weather permits we'll hit a bucket or 2 I'm thinking

I’ll meet you there so I can get some pointers

Golf He Goes

Ban yourself for this

No Fore

Bucketballs

Bammer wrote:

E.H. Ruddock wrote:

bodysnatcher wrote:

doug rr wrote:

bodysnatcher wrote:

doug rr wrote:2 good friends coming over later this afternoon to stay until Sunday...not much planned other than eat and drink...making a dutch oven full of short ribs for tonight

Range balls and a 6 pack

the guy in the group of 2 is a pga teaching pro..if weather permits we'll hit a bucket or 2 I'm thinking

I’ll meet you there so I can get some pointers

Golf He Goes

Ban yourself for this

he's sponsored by Taylor Made now..he brought me 3 dozen balls...feels like I won the lotto...

Lump Sumtimes

State of Love and Trust Fund

7-Eleven O’Clock

Powerball or None

Breakerwindfall

Truly a sight to behold. A man beaten. The once great champ, now, a study in moppishness. No longer the victory hungry stallion we've raced so many times before, but a pathetic, washed up, aged ex-champion.

Higgs wrote:Truly a sight to behold. A man beaten. The once great champ, now, a study in moppishness. No longer the victory hungry stallion we've raced so many times before, but a pathetic, washed up, aged ex-champion.

i'm standing right here, geesh

Higgs wrote:Truly a sight to behold. A man beaten. The once great champ, now, a study in moppishness. No longer the victory hungry stallion we've raced so many times before, but a pathetic, washed up, aged ex-champion.

I’d like to think I appreciated what we had while we had it.

Not sure what this Higgs shade is about lately.

My boys are going on fallon.

They’re gonna be Fuckin huge. They’ve a movie out in august. It’s a riot.
Tune in to this if you can

spike wrote:Not sure what this Higgs shade is about lately.

I’ve never been much good at figuring things out … maybe it’s about you coming completely Pundone

99.9999999999999999999999999999999999% certain Higgs' shade was a Better Off Dead reference.

Bammer wrote:

spike wrote:Not sure what this Higgs shade is about lately.

I’ve never been much good at figuring things out … maybe it’s about you coming completely Pundone

I’ve always posted so terrible they amuse me puns as much as the truly great ones.